18 vic n gin khin bn c bit
M bn thm ch cn khng .Trong mt ca nhng ngi lm cha m, mi a tr mi
sinh u l mt s phi thng. Nhng khi cn b, chng ta lun b un nn tr thnh
mt phn ph hp vi x hi. Nhng a tr b buc phi tht lng l, sng khim nhng
v khng c khc bit; hoc l chng s b ty chay. V dn dn th mi ngi u qun
rng mi ngi trong chng ta l mt thc th phi thng v nh mt s c o m ta
tng c.Phi chng bn cng qun mt s phi thng ca chnh bn thn mnh? Vy iu g
c th ni cho bn bit rng, bn vn lun l mt c th c bit?1. Bn c sch mi
ngy
Bn khng ngng hc hi. iu khin bn phi thng v bn u t thi gian vo vic
ci thin bn thn v nng cao kin thc. Ngi ngoi coi bn l mt sch hoc k lp
d, nhng khng nn l iu khin cho bn ngng c. Mt ngy no , vn tri thc m
bn tch gp s gip bn lm nn iu v i.2. Bn l mt k lang thang trong m, mt
gic m lnNgi i thng qu bn rn mng m. iu khin bn phi thng v bn c c m v
nhng nguyn vng thc hin. Cng c khi gic m ca bn qu to ln, khin h ngh
rng n qu v dng v vin vng. Cng c khi ngi ta ly n lm tr ci, nhng ng v
h m ngng li. Bn c ti nng. Cng nh Walt Disney v Steve Jobs, bn c tm
nhn m ngi thng nhn khng ti.3. Bn tm dng suy ngm v so snhTrong khi
nhng ngi khc ang vi v chy a vi nhng thi hn, bn dng li tm kim vn ct
li bn trong. ng nghip cho rng bn chm chp, thiu nng sut v cn trng qu
mc. Nhng iu khin bn lm mt ngi phi thng v nhng quy nh khng khin bn
tr nn m qung. Bn i mt v th thch vi thc ti tm ra hng i tt nht.4. Bn
bt khc bi mt b phim cm ng hay v mt bi ca p
Bn bit cm thng v chia s. Bn bit lng nghe ting lng ca nhng ngi
xung quanh. Ngi ngoi ngh bn khng th khng ch cm xc. Nhng hy nh rng
bn c bit v nhng xc cm lun n vi bn tht t nhin v chng khin bn xc ng v
nhng iu p .5. Bn gip ngi khc v iu kinH ngh bn nh d c tin khi sn lng
gip m khng cn s n p. iu tht c bit v cuc sng ca bn khng b quy i v
nhng ng xu v nhng t dollars. Bn vui v khi c lm ngi tt v gip nhng
ngi xung quanh, iu khin bn hnh phc v cm thy tuyt vi.6. Bn ngi thin
vo bui sngBn quan tm n mi quan h ca mnh vi bn thn, iu cng quan trng
nh vn ti chnh, s nghip v nhng mi quan h x hi. V vy bn tp yoga, thin
v suy ngh tch cc vo mi bui sng. Ngi ta cho rng bn k l, nhng bn c
bit rng nhng ngi thnh cng nh Oprah Winfrey, Jack Canfield v Hugh
Jackman cng dnh thi gian thin vo mi sng?7. Bn lng nghe nhiu hn l
niBn chn cch lng nghe thay v th hin bn thn bng li ni, nhng khng bi
v bn thn bn nht nht, trm lng hay nht nho. Bn c chnh kin, nhng vn sn
sng lng nghe v tip nhn kin ca nhng ngi xung quanh, c hiu thm v h.
iu khin bn c bit v bn lun ch tm lng nghe v thch th vi vic hc hi t
ngi khc.8. Bn chp nhn v trn trng s tht bi
Nhiu ngi khng thch s tht bi. H th tr tr ch khng mun phi i mt vi
chng. iu khc vi vic mo him, bt cn v bc ng. Bn trn trng nhng tht bi
ca mnh v n s ct ting nu bn ang lc li. Bn th nghim phng php no mang
li hiu qu, ci no khng vch ra nhng hng i ng n.9. Bn thoi mi khi c mt
mnhBn l mt ngi c lp. Vic dng ba mt mnh, xem phim mt mnh v du lch mt
mnh khng th ph hng tm trng ca bn. Ngi ta coi bn l mt k c n hay kh
gn. Nhng s thc l bn lun t tin v thoi mi vi bn thn. Bn khng cn ngi
khc ch hay cng nhn [bn chnh l bn].10. Bn khng sng theo mt thi quen
nghim ngtMc d gi cho mnh danh sch nhng vic phi lm, nhng bn khng hnh
ng 100% nh ci my. Nhng thi quen s khin bn chng chn, v vy bn cn thay
i mt hai th trong ngy. Ngi ta ngh rng bn v k lut v v t chc. Nhng iu
c bit l cuc sng ca bn khng nht nho. Bn lun tm kim nhng iu mi m thm
gia v vo cuc sng ca mnh.11. Bn bit cch bung tayH c th cho rng bn c
thm chng chn v vic t b i vi bn qu d dng v bn chng c quyt tm. Nhng
ch mnh bn bit, bn khng t b, m bn cn phi bung tay nhng iu khng mang
li kt qu. Ti sao phi kin tr theo ui n cng nhng iu m bn bit chc rng
s khng c thnh qu, hay kt qu cui cng cng ch l nhng iu v ngha i vi bn
thn?12. Bn ngh n bn thn trc khi quan tm n ngi khci khi, ngi ta ngh
rng bn ch k, v cm v thiu quan tm. Nhng bn thc s phi thng khi hiu
ngha ca vic t chm sc bn thn trc khi quan tm n ngi khc. Bn bit rng
vic t chm sc bn thn s khng khin mnh tr thnh gnh nng cho h. Bn khng
da dm vo nhng ngi xung quanh v ch i h n chm sc mnh.13. Bn khng ngng
t ra nhng cu hi
Bn kh l t m v tc mch. Bn mun bit cch mi th hot ng v bn khng nhn
nhn s vic bng nhng gi tr bn ngoi. Ngi ta pht cu v ngh bn phin phc.
Nhng m bn thc s phi thng khi lun quan tm n [gn nh l] c th gii. Bn
khng hi ch v mnh c quyn c hi, m bn hi v mun thu hiu ton b s vt, s
vic; c th ci thin v trn trng chng nhiu hn.14. Bn t khi by t s tc
gin trc mt ngi khcChc chn i khi bn cng tc gin v b lm phin bi nhng
ngi v nhng vic xung quanh. Nhng t khi bn by t s tc gin ca mnh bi v
lng trc n. Bn hiu rng n chng bao gi d chu khi b ngi ta gin c chm
tht. Ngi ta cho rng bn nhu nhc v yu ui. Tuy nhin, bn hiu v trn trng
gi tr ca s ha thun, v vy bn lun c gng duy tr n.15. Bn sng lc quan v
lun nhn thy v p bn trongBn d b truyn cm hng bi s vt, s vic xung
quanh. Ngi ta s cho rng bn qu tch cc v lc quan. Nhng iu phi thng ca
bn l lun nhn thy s tt p n giu bn trong h. Mc d bit rng mi vic u c
nhng mt ti, nhng bn th quan tm n nhng iu tch cc v tr nn hnh phc, hn
l c i bm dnh ly nhng iu tiu cc.16. Bn lun quan tm n tri tim ca mnh
trc khi quyt nhBn cm thy c g khng ng nu khng hi kin ca tri tim trc
khi quyt nh. Ngi ta ngh bn thiu khn ngoan hoc qu a cm. Nhng bn hiu
rng tnh cm cng quan trng nh l tr vy, c hai a u phi cng ng thun, nu
khng bn s khng thc s mun thc hin cam kt .17. Bn cho php bn thn c lm
nhng iu mnh thch
Bn thc s phi thng khi khng p buc bn thn phi lm nhng iu mnh ght.
Ngi ta ngh rng bn ngu ngc khi phung ph qu nhiu thi gian v tin bc
theo ui nim am m. Nhng h khng bit rng bn thc s hnh phc khi c lm
nhng iu , v bn bit rng mnh khng chi thi gian v tin bc, m u t vo nim
vui v hnh phc.18. Bn yu bn thn mnhThng th ngi ta t trch mnh v ngi
khc nu mi vic khng c nh mun. Nhng bn th phi thng v bit yu v i x tt
vi bn thn. Bn hi bn thn mnh mt cch t t gii quyt vn nu iu g khng c
nh mun, thay v gn cho mnh nhng ci tn ngu ngc v t phn xt bn thn.Chc
mng v bn c bit phi thngNgay c khi 18 iu trn khng chnh xc vi bn th
bn vn c bit phi thng. Mi ngi u c bit v phi thng theo nhng cch ring,
v vy hy chia s mn qu ca mnh vi th gii. ng ch giu bn thn ng sau tm
rm m hy tn dng s c bit ca chnh bn.Joey(theo Lifehack)
