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2. Original title: How to Simplify Your Life:Einfacher und glcklicher leben by Werner Tiki Kstenmacher and Lothar Seiwert Copyright 2004 by Campus Verlag GmbH Vietnamese Edition 2010 by First News Tri VietPublished by arrangement with Campus Verlag GmbH, Germany. All rights reserved.HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEB QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG Cng ty First News - Tr Vit gi bn quyn xut bn v pht hnh n bn ting Vit trn ton th gii theo hp ng chuyn giao bn quyn vi Nh xut bn Campus, c. Bt c s sao chp no khng c s ng ca First News u l bt hp php v vi phm Lut Xut bn Vit Nam, Lut Bn quyn Quc t v Cng c Bo h Bn quyn S hu Tr tu Berne. CNG TY VN HA SNG TO TR VIT - FIRST NEWS11H Nguyn Th Minh Khai, Q. 1, TP. H Ch Minh Tel: (84.8) 3822 7979 - 3822 7980 - 38233859 - 3823 3860 Fax: (84.8) 3822 4560; Email: triviet@firstnews.com.vn Website: www.firstnews.com.vn 3. Tiki KstenmacherLothar J. SeiwertMinh ha: Tiki Kstenmacher B QUYTN GIN HA CUC SNGBy bc thc hnh bn qung gnh loi v sng mt cuc sng hnh phc! Bin dch: Thanh Tho An BnhFirst News NH XUT BN TR 4. LI NI UHc hi v sng mt cuc i ngha Cun sch m bn ang cm trong tay s tr thnhmt trong nhng cun sch quan trng nht trong cuc ibn. Hn bn cng tng nghe nhiu tc gi ni nh thv sch ca h. Tuy nhin, sau nhiu cuc hi tho, thuyttrnh v cc kha b sung kin thc chuyn su, chng titin rng cun sch ny s tht s lm cho cuc sng ca bntr nn y hn.Cun sch ny cpn ngh thut am hiucuc sng, gii phng timnng trong con ngi bn,ng thi a bn n vihnh phc v s vin mn.Chng ti tin rngkhng ai c th mang ncho bn ngha ca cucsng bi n hin din ngaybn trong bn. Sng mtcuc i ngha bao gm 5. 6 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEvic pht trin tim nng ca mnh theo hng tt nht vtham gia vo cc hot ng x hi, ni bn c th t cs pht trin tuyt vi nht cho bn thn v cho cng ng y l s cn bng l tng gia tnh yu thng bn thnv lng v tha. Nu lm theo con ng n gin ha c gii thchtrong cun sch ny, bn s tm c ngha v vn mnhca cuc i mnh. Bn s thay i t ngoi vo trong v ttrong ra ngoi. Bn s tm c nhng lc a mi trongchnh bn thn mnh. Bn s pht trin nhng ngun scmnh ca bn thn m trc y bn cha tng bit. Bn stm thy mt cp hon ton mi ca s tha mn v mtth cht. V th ca bn s c ci thin. Bn s c cao v yu thng. V bn s tht s hnh phc t trongni tm. Nhiu ngi khng tm c ngha trong cuc sngbi h t ra nhng cu hi qu phc tp. H khng nhnthy v p ca s n gin.Khi bn c n y, ngha l bn bt u cuchnh trnh n gin ha. Chng ti hy vng bn s tm cnhng tri nghim th v v vui v khi tin nhng bc xahn trn hnh trnh .Tiki KstenmacherLothar J. Seiwert 6. CON NGN GIN HA S N GIN HA C NGHA G I VI BN?iu g xut hin trong u khi bn nghe thy cm tn gin ha? i vi nhiu ngi, y l mt thut ngmang tnh tch cc hin nhin. Khi nghe thy cm t ngin ha, h gt u mm ci v t v thu hiu. lv h phi chu ng sphc tp ca cuc sng, tcun hng dn s dng inthoi di ng dy cm nnhng bin i kh lng cath trng chng khon V bn cht, s n gin ha c ngha l chng lmg c. S n gin ha tri ngc vi s i hi. N mangtnh tch cc v l mt kh nng m bn c t lu. Bncht con ngi l mt thc th n gin. Nu c dp nthm s th hoc du ngon thin nhin hoang d, hyngm nhn nhng ngi h hng gn nht ca chng ta loi vn ngi, bn s thy c kh nng k diu ca 7. 8 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEchng trong vic tri qua hng gi lin nhn nh, chia hoc chng lm g c. Dng thc c bn nht ca sn gin chnh l ch n thun tn ti m thi. S N GIN - MT NHU CU C BN CA CON NGI Tht k l l tt c nhng hot ng phc tp, nhngpht minh v yu cu ca chng ta u xut pht t nhucu c bn v s n gin, tc l mong mun sng thnhthi v chng lm g c. Mi ngi u mun kim thmtin c an ton v sng thoi mi hn trong tng lai. Chng ta c gng xy mt cn nh p vi khnggian thong ng c th ng lng ra chic gh datrong vn th gin m chng cn lo lng g. Chic myra chn cng phu c pht minh chng ta c thdng thi gian ra chn lm nhng cng vic khc d chuhn. Nh nc ra i khi con ngi mun gii quyt cctranh chp c th sng thanh thn v ngha hn, thayv phi lo lng khng ngng v mi him khch vi ngikhc. Cc qu bo him, nhng thit b gia nh, cngvic hnh chnh cng nhiu iu khc c to ra nhmgip ta c c cuc sng n gin v hnh phc hn.Tuy nhin, trong nhiu trng hp, chng ta khng nhn ra nh tt p y. Gic m v mt khonbo him x hi kha kh tr thnh mt cuc chin vs ng gp gia cc th h v cc nhm thu nhp. Gia 8. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 9nh tr thnh cng vic ton thi gian i vi nhiungi. V hn l khng t ngi trong chng ta tng gpphi nhng cng chc quan liu lun tm cch gy kh dcho ngi dn - nhng ngi m ng ra h phi phc v.Ni tm li, kht vng v s n gin b binthnh mt qu trnh gia tng s phc tp. Con ng n gin ha gip ta o ngc li iuny v quay tr v vi mc chtht s ca cuc sng. chnhl s n gin, phn nh nhngqu ngt ca mt cuc sngtrng thnh v vin mn. Nubn ang phi i mt vi mtgiai on ri rm v phc tpca i mnh, th c th mc tiuny tht v l i vi bn.Nhng chnh khi cc nh cas phc tp th bn tht lngmong cuc sng ca mnh s tr nn n gin hn.n gin ha bao gm vic m ra mt con ngmi trong mi lnh vc ca cuc sng v vic kch hotmt loi hiu ng A ha. Ch tht d dng nh th!Con ng n gin ha i hi vic tm kim s ngin tim n trc mt bn v trong bn. S n ginny ch c th cm nhn c khi t n trn ci nn cas phc tp. Con ng n gin ha s dng kinhnghim cuc i bn v nhng li lm m bn mc 9. 10 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEphi. N khng phi l th vt cht c lm sn m bnc th mua. N l kt qu ca s ho hng khi khi umt con ng mi. N l mt mn trang sc qu gi mbn nhn c cui cuc hnh trnh d iu khngc ngha l cuc hnh trnh c hon tt.Cuc hnh trnh tin t bn ngoi vo bn trong. Nbt u t bn giy ca bn, trong nh bn v vi vic tchc thi gian ca bn. N tip tc vi nhng mi quanh c nhn ca bn, t ngi bn i, con ci, bn b vcc ng nghip ca bn. Con ng y dn bn n vic th mnh, n vi s thch nghi c v th cht ln tinhthn. V n kt thc trong ngh v cm xc ca bn, gia cuc sng v c tnh ca bn. Hy trng i mt cuc hnh trnh tht ho hngv hy bt u con ng n gin ha ca bn bng mtgic m. Gic m n gin ha ca bn: m u tin Hy tng tng bn m thy mt ngi v hnh nm ly tay bn v dn bn ra khi phng. Mt mn sng mu xm xanh bao xung quanh bn v xa xa, bn m h nhn thy mt ngy mi ang n. Tht kh ni r liu bn ang tri bng bnh, ang i hay ang bay v phng no. 10. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 11Nhng ri bn thy rng mnh n mt vng t rt quen thuc. Mt ta lu i hin ra trc mt bn, ta nh mt kim t thp. V bn bit chnh l kim t thp ca i mnh. Bn ch c th on c cao ca n bi nh chp b ln sng m che khut.M HNH KIM T THP NHIU TNG Chng ta c th so snh con ng n gin ha vimt kim t thp. Con ng dn n phn ct li, n gin v tinh ty nht ca cuc i bn phi i qua by tng, tng trng cho by lnh vc khc nhau ca cuc sng. Chiu cao ca kim t thp tng trng cho chiu su ni tm ca bn. S rt hiuqu nu mi tng, bn c t nht mt bc t ph.Th t ca cc tng khng quan trng v bn c thbt u t di chn, gia kim t thp hoc bt k v trno bn thch.T kinh nghim ca mnh, chng ti cho rng khaokht s n gin thng bt u t cp thp nht:trong cng vic v trong gia nh bn. l l do v saokhi m t tng quan v by bc n gin ha, chng ti 11. 12 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEli chn bt u bng mt ch ht sc quan trng: dndp v sinh. Tng 1: Cc vt dng ca bn Hy bt u vi tt c nhng vt dng m bn angs hu. Theo thng k, trung bnh mi chng ta s hukhong 10.000 vt dng. Con s ny dao ng ty theotng ngi v bn c th c nhiu hn th. Bn nn btu dn dp t bn lm vic ca mnh c c cmgic tuyt vi khi lm ch c nhng cng vic giyt. Sau , hy tip tc vi cc ngn t, cc phng trongnh, ga ra v chic xe ca bn. Tng 2: Tnh hnh ti chnh ca bn Ti chnh l vn rt kh nm bt mt cch r rng.n gin l v cc vn lin quan n tin bc thngkh khn hn vic dn dp nhng ng c hn n. y, chng ta khng ch bn n tin mt v s d trongti khon ngn hng m cn ni v cc khon n nn,cc khon cho vay v c bit l cc khun mu ng xv vn tin bc. Tng 3: Thi gian ca bn Th ti sn ny thm ch cn kh nm bt hn c vn ti chnh. Mi ngi u c hai mi bn gi mi ngy.Vn y l h c bao nhiu thi gian rnh ty s dng. V/chng, ngi thn, sp, ng nghip, khchhng tt c u tiu tn ca bn mt khong thi gianno y. Trn tt c, c nhng thi quen hng ngy, trch 12. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 13nhim, s thch v c l l mt nim am m b mt noy s khin bn phi u t thi gian. Nhng liu bn cth tm thy thi gian dnh cho bn thn, bt kp bn thn,suy ngh v chng lm g c ni no? Mt ln na, bnhy to ra trt t v s n gin cho n. Khi lm nh vy,bn tin thm mt bc n gn hn vi bn cht conngi mnh.Tng 4: Sc khe ca bnC th bn chnh l ti sn ring t nht ca bn.Thng thng, chng ta ch quan tm n n khi nkhng hot ng bnh thng. Khi b bnh, ta c khuynhhng b qua mi mi bn tm trong cuc sng. Conng n gin ha s mang n cho bn cch thc trnh tnh trng y bng vic phng trnh bnh tt lu di.N s gip bn t c s hi ha gia tm tr v thcht. V vic ny cng c lin quan n i sng tnh dcca bn.Tng 5: Cc mi quan h ca bn C th mng li x hi chnh l nguyn nhn khincuc sng ca bn tr nn phc tp. Cc vn c nhn,s tranh chp v lng k l nhng h qu tai hi ikm. Thm ch nhng mi quan h thn thit cng nhngmi rng buc x hi cng c th tr nn phc tp, nhtl khi bn buc phi hy sinh nhu cu ca mnh lm hilng ngi khc. Con ng n gin ha s gip bnlm ch cc mi quan h ca mnh. N s gii phng bn bn c c nhng mi lin h lm giu thm cho 13. 14 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEmnh v tin v pha trc. N lm cho mi quan h giabn vi cha m hoc cc thnh vin khc trong gia nhtr nn nh nhng hn. Thm ch, n cn gip bn ctm nhn xa hn qung i mnh sng. Tng 6: i sng la i ca bn Vai tr to ln m chng ta t cho tnh yu da trnnim tin rng ta tin gn v pha bn thn nht trong miquan h vi ngi bn i ca mnh. Ngi bn i ykhng nht thit phi l chng/v, m c th l mt ngibn thn thit trong cuc sng. Nhng ngi c nim tintn gio mnh m c th tm c mi quan h ny ving b trn. i vi nhng ngi sng mt mnh th c th l b con, bn b hoc cc mi quan h quan trngkhc. Con ng n gin ha t du chm ht cho nimtin v cn c rng thnh cng trong s nghip phi linquan n s cng thng trong hn nhn hay i sng lai ca mi ngi. Tng 7: Bn thn bnnh cao ca kim t thp n gin ha l mt cnphng rt c o. Pha trn li vo chnh l quan imv s vin mn, hnh phc cng nh mc ch sng cabn. Cn phng y trn ngp s n gin tuyt i. iung ni l n khng h trng rng m c lp y bngnhng nt tnh cch ring ca bn. y, bn s hiuhn v chnh mnh. V khi ri khi cn phng , bn sc nm tri mt s thay i tuyt vi. 14. Chng 1 n gin ha cc vt dng 15. B quyt 1:Sp xp ni lm vicB quyt 2:Thu dn cc chng h s trongvn phngB quyt 3:V sinh mi trng xung quanhB quyt 4:Khc phc tt ng tr 16. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 17Gic m n gin ha ca bn: m th hai Bn v cng kinh ngc khi bit c kch thc kimt thp ca mnh. Khi chm ri i do xung quanh,bn nhn thy rt nhiu vt v tt c u rt quenthuc. Bn gh, nhng chic hp, cc vt dng, nhngchic k cht y sch v nhng ngn t y qun o.Bn nhn thy cc vt dng nh v ni lm vic, xehi, xe p v nhiu th khc na. Khi y, bn nhn thy trong mnh c hai cm gicmu thun nhau. Bn t ho v s giu c ca mnhcng nh nhng tin ch m cc vt dng y mang li.Nhng bn cnh , khi lng c khng l ycng khin bn tht vng. Bn thy mnh chng sdng ht chng v thm ch nhiu th cn gy phinh cho bn. Bn thy chng khng ng chtrong dinh th ca cuc i mnh. Nhng bn nn btu t u? Th ri bn tm thy mt ni c th th phonh nhm v bn nhn ra cm gic tht thoi mi. Bnquyt nh bt u y. Bn nhn ra rng mnh chc th tip tc bc ln bc tip theo ca kim t thpkhi sp xp li cc vt dng ny vo ng trt tca chng. 17. 18 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE Mc tiu n gin ha tng 1n gin ha bn thn bng nhng vt dng n gin hn. Tng thp nht ca kim t thp cp n cc vtdng, t trong nh cho n ni lm vic. Hu ht mingi u nhn thy s ba bn thng xuyn nh hocchn cng s l du hiu ca mc hn n trm trnghn. H thm nh rng: Nu ti thu xp c cng vicca mnh th ti s bt tay vodn dp bn lm vic. Tuynhin, con ng n ginha li a ra mt khm phngc li: nu dn dp schs ni lm vic ca mnh, bns cm thy khe khon hnrt nhiu. Qu tht, khi bnloi b mt s th khng cn thit, cuc sng ca bn sthay i, ta nh va c tip thm ngun sinh kh mi. i vi nhiu ngi, s phc tp trong cuc sngc th hin r nht qua cc vt dng. Nhng ngi tng c nguyt san n gin ha cuc sng ca chngti u nhn ra rng bc v pha cuc sng gin nv hnh phc, h cn t mt ng h s cnh bnlm vic hoc gi cho sn nh lun sch s. 18. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 19C th vi bn, vic p dng b quytny s c i cht khc bit. Bn nn sdng mt vi phng php c giithiu trong chng ny cmnhn c cm gic nh nhmca s n gin.Con ng n gin ha khngyu cu bn phi gi cho mi ngc ngchtrong vn phng hoc cn nh bn gn gng mt cchhon ho. Ngc li, bn ch cn bt u vi mt ni vhy tn hng ngun nng lng tch cc m hnh ngy mang n.B QUYT 1:SP XP NI LM VIC Con ngi c th vt qua nhng th thch ln, phttrin ngun sc mnh khng l v pht minh ra cc cngngh hin i nh bi nhng k th ln. Th nhng,h ch c th t c nhng iu k diu y khi ln ltthc hin chng. Chng ta s cm thy bt lc nu khngbit bt u t u. Nhn t hng u khin ta cng thngchnh l nhng nhim v bt kh thi. Qu tht, nu khngbit phi bt u t u, bn s kh b tin b c. Nukhng bit v tr cc vt dng mnh cn u, bn s phthi gian tm kim v to ra s hn n trong tm tr mnh. 19. 20 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFENu mi ln nhn vo khu vc lm vic ca mnh, bncm thy n nh mt khu rng gi khng th thm nhpc th bn nn ch ng s dng phng php th nhtm chng ti ang gii thiu ny.Nu bn cho rng mnh c qu nhiu vic phi lmnn khng c thi gian dn dp bn lm vic th hysuy ngh li. Hy bt u dn dp ngay by gi! Thm ch,d c phi mt vi ba gi ng h (t khi n ko di luhn: chng ta thng d tr nhiu thi gian hn so vimc mnh tht s cn), th vic u t y cng hon tonxng ng bi sau y, tm tr bn s tr nn sng sut.Bn cm thy khe hn, c ng lc hn v s nhanhchng b p li khong thi gian mt y. Phng php bn gc t Phng php ny c bit n nh mt b quyt lmvic ca cc tng thng M v n c gi l LutEisenhower(1). N c bit n nh l mt ma trn qunl thi gian. Di y l mt phin bn c p dng cho mc ch n gin ha:Hy chia mt mt bn trngthnh bn khu vc (Khng phi lbn lm vic ca bn m l chic bnbn cnh, nu khng th c th dngsn nh). Sau , hy sp xp li tonb giy t trn bn lm vic ca bntheo chiu kim ng h v t mi(1) Eisenhower (1890 - 1969): Tng thng th 34 ca Hoa K (1953 - 1961). 20. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 21loi giy t vo mt trong bn khu vc nh c miu tdi y. Hy dn ton b tm sc cho cng vic ny,ng bn thn b chi phi. Trn ht, hy tin tng rng(c th sau mt lc c gng, bn cm thy: Ti s chngth gii quyt c vic ny), hot ng ny s tip thmnng lng cho bn v khin bn hng hi hn.Bn khu vc y nh sau:1. Vt b i: Khu vc ny dnh cho nhng th bnkhng dng n na. Hy t mt chic thng ln y.Di y l danh sch gi v nhng loi giy t khngcn thit m bn c th vt i: Cc mu qung co du lch c Cc t bo c hn mt tun Cc quyn catalog qu su thng Cc tp ch khng cha bi bo bn cn trongtng lai Cc b th li thi Bn ca nhng khu du lch hoc quc gia mbn khng d nh n thm trong hai nm ti Giy t t thi Trung hc hay i hc Thip chc Ging sinh c Mt na tranh v ca con tr m bn yu thch(hy gi li nhng bc p nht thi iu ny slm gia tng gi tr ca chng!) 21. 22 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE Lch treo tng ca nhng nm trc Cc b quyt m bn chng bao gi p dng Sch hng dn s dng ca cc thit b in t m bn khng cn dng na Cc giy bo hnh ht hnChng ti tin rng bn s rt ngc nhin khi nhn rac hng t th ht hn s dng t lu!2. Chuyn i. Khu vc th hai dnh cho nhng thm bn c th chuyn cho ngi khc gii quyt. C thmt bn lm vic ca bn ln xn l v bn khng thchlm phin ngi khc v mun t mnh gii quyt. Khi pdng b quyt ny, bn phi t b cc thi quen ca mnhv nghim tc trong vic y quyn cng vic. Hy nhn nhng ngi xung quanh bn, t ngi thn, bn bcho n ng nghip gip bn thc hin nhim v ny.3. Quan trng. Khu vc th ba dnh cho nhng thm bn cn phi ch thn lm. Hy suy ngh v nhngvic cn lm vi nhng giy t m bn t vo y. Hykin quyt gii quyt chng. 4. Hnh ng ngay. Khu vc th t ny rt c bitbi n dnh cho nhng loi giy t m bn c th giiquyt ngay trong lc dn dp bng cc hnh ng tcthi sau y:in thoi: Bn gii quyt vn bng in thoid d nh s gii quyt n qua th. Nu khng 22. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 23th lin lc vi ngi c lin quan th hy t giyt y vo khu vc th ba.Fax: Gi fax cc vn bn y cho ngi gi kmtheo li nhn xt vit tay (hoc bn cng c thgi qua e-mail nu ngi khng c my fax).Lu tr: t chng vo mt ba lu tr h s thchhp hoc mt ngn c lin quan trong ng hs ca bn. (Phn tip theo s bn nhiu hn vcc ng h s ny). Cc nguyn l ca ma trn qun l thi gianPhng php bn gc t rt c hiu qu nu bntrung thnh vi ba quy lut n gin ha sau: ng to ra ng hn n trung gian no. ng cm mnh giy no ln ln th hai. ng to ra khu vc no khc ngoi bn khu vc ny. Qu trnh ny gii phng bn v to ng lc bntip tc hnh ng. Bn c c mt khu vc lm victrng tri v ngn chn c s hn n quanh mnh. Gith bn c sc mnh i ph vi nhng ni tch th s cao ngt ngng. 23. 24 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE B QUYT 2:THU DN CC CHNG H S TRONG VN PHNGNguyn l tng t cng c th c ng dng trongh thng lu tr ca bn. Cuc sng s tr nn d dnghn khi bn ghi nh nguyn l c bn ny: Ch mt, thayv nhiu. Hy trnh dng s nhiu trong tt c mi th. Biu tng quen thuc nht ca nhng nhim v phctp nhng v b l ng giy t gii quyt sau. Migiy t i din cho mt nhim v m bn phi hon thnh.Nhng c mt chng giy t s gy ra s chn nn cc v tr thnh gnh nng cho bn. Bn khng cn bit chnhxc ni dung yu cu ca n na. Dn dn, chng h sy s mnh hn bn, ta nh n ang ch giu: Bn thtb bi, chm chp!. Hn th na, tht l sai lm khi tinrng bn s khng qun nhim v ca mnh khi gi nhngt giy y trn bn. Mt khi bn chng cc loi giy tln nhau th chng s khng cn kh nng nhc nh bnc na. Gii php hiu qu v an ton nht trong trnghp ny l hy kt hp mt cun lch (vi danh sch nhngvic cn lm) v mt ng h s treo. Chng h s kinh khngNhng chng h s gy mt mi khng ch chang giy t v cc nhim v bn cn hon thnh m cnbao gm nhiu loi sau: nhng tp ch m bn d nh sxem qua sau, cc bi bo bn nh son ra vo mt ngy 24. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 25no y, nhng bc nhv chuyn i ngh mbn nh s sp xpchng vo album... Cch thc quenthuc i ph vicc ng ba bn l khng hnh thnh chng ngay tu. Ch cm mt giy t ln v gii quyt n ngay lptc l nguyn l khn ngoan trong trng hp ny. Tuynhin, trn thc t, vic ny ch c th thc hin c ivi cc lnh o cp cao, nhng ngi lun c mt ing nhn vin h tr ht mnh. Cn trong cuc sngthng nht, bn s lun phi tm thi lu tr mi th. Vth, vic hnh thnh nhng ng ba bn l iu khngth trnh khi. ng h s treo: Cng c n gin ha Nguyn l vng ca vic n gin ha nhng chnggiy t l: Hy xoay chng!. Hy xoay nhng giy ttrong chng h s chn mi tch chng ra khichng v ri lu tr chng trong mt ng h s treovi cc ngn h s m pha trn. Chng h s dy cgi tr nn d gii quyt hn rt nhiu. N tr nn ngin theo ng ngha ca thut ng y bi mi cng vicu c phn tch ring bit. Khi bn s dng ng h s treo, ngha l bn to ra trt t, thm ch l khung th bc cho chng. Chng 25. 26 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEhn, bn sp xpnhng giy t quantrng vo ngn trcca ng h s.Cch lm nymang n cho bniu g? R rng l bn vn phi thc hin cc cng vicca mnh nh trc y thi. Tuy nhin, khi lu tr h svo ng ch, bn s c mt ci nhn tng quan ngn v chng. V sau mt thi gian, bn s nhn ra rngcm gic ngt ngt xut pht t nhng chng giy tkhng cn nng trong lng bn na. chc chn rng bn khng b st cng vic camnh khi h s v n bin mt khi ngn lu tr, bn cnghi li cng vic y vo danh sch nhng vic cn lm, vghi c vo lch hoc thi gian biu ca bn. Trm trung gian thay v im n cui cng ng h s treo ca bn s tr thnh cng c trungtm, l ni hi t ca mi giy t. Nhng vic ny ch dinra khi bn coi n nh mt trm trung chuyn. Khng bt k giy t no qu ba thng. Vi quyt tm ca mnh, bn c th bin trung tm iu khin ny thnh mt ng nghip trung thnh v tn ty. 26. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 27Mi quy tc dn sch cc ng ba bn 1. Ct tr trong mt ba lu h s. Khi mt nhimv no c gii quyt, hy mang nhng giy t clin quan ra khi ng h s treo. Khng gian rtqu gi. Nhng giy t cn gi trong mt thi gian di thkhng c trong ng h s treo mhy cho chng vo ba lu h s. ll do ti sao bn cn c mt ba lu hs tng ng vi mi ng h streo theo tng ch . Hy qungnhng th g khng cn cn thitvo thng rc.2. To cc ng h s hin hnh. Nhng giy tkhng thuc ng h s treo nn c ct tr nikhc. Hy gi nhng h s y trong mt ng h s hinhnh. Hy tm lc ni dung hoc dng trang ta can cho vo ng h s treo tng ng.3. Ghi ch vo lch. Chng ti cp n vn ny phn trc. khng qun cng vic cn lm, bnhy ghi ch n trn thi kha biu ca mnh.4. Sng ch nhng tn gi thng minh. Hy t tncho cc ng h s treo vi mc ch biu th mt iug y, chng hn nh: Gian hng trong hi ch thngmi, Phng nghin cu, Cc chuyn cng tc. Trnhs dng cc nhn nh: Cp bch hoc Cn lm. Cc ng h s vi nhng ci tn chung chung, khng c ngha thng b b qua nn nhiu h s trong d b tht 27. 28 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFElc. ng dng nhng ngn t nghim trang bun t chocc ng h s m hy tn dng hiu qu ca c hihc. V d, thay cho nhn: Cn lm, hy : Hy trli ti, thay cho: Ha n, hy ghi: Hy tr tin ti,thay v: Cc cuc hn qun khc, hy ghi i xa 5. Lin tc thay i. Hy m bo rng ng h streo ca bn l mt thc th sng. ng lo ngi v vicphi lin tc thay i tn ca cc ba h s. V d: mtphng vin truyn hnh lun c ng bn tin v phngs anh ta theo ui. Khi phng s hon tt, anh ta schuyn cc giy t lin quan vo mt ba lu h s v ci ng h s c s c mt ci tn mi theo tn ca phngs khc. Hy sn nhn dn trong ngn cui cng ca ng h s treo. 6. Phn ng nhanh nhy. Mt phng php hiuqu khc l hy chun b nhng b th in sn, t chng ngn u tin tin li trong vic s dng. iu nys gip bn phc p th t mt cch nhanh chng. 7. S dng hp l. Hy xc nh loi giy t lun cmt trn bn lm vic ca bn v chng chng thuc voloi h s no c. Hy to ra cc ng h s ph hpcho chng. Chng hn, bn c th to mt khu vc choCon ci (giy mi hp ph huynh, danh sch cc lphc...) hoc Cu lc b th thao (nu bn l thnh vinca mt cu lc b no ). Cc giy t khc nh cc bibo c ct ra, t qung co... s c a vo mt thmc c lin quan. Hy to ra mt th mc thch hp nu 28. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 29trong h s treo ca bn khng c (v d: Cc li khuyncho sc khe c nhn).Bn cnh , bn cng c th to ra th mc mangtn: Chuyn i mi cha ng tt c giy t lin quann cc chuyn i cng tc (v tu/xe/my bay, lch trnh,bn thnh ph, a ch khch sn, th mi, cc trangthng tin c lin quan). Thng tin cho mi chuyn i c th c gi trong mt chic ba bng nha trong sut. Trc khi khi hnh, hy kimtra li n chc chn rngmi th quan trng u trong c. Trong sutchuyn i, bn c th s dngchic ba ng tt c cc giy t m bn mun gili, c bit l nhng giy t cn thit c thanh tonli chi ph chuyn i. Khi mi vic tnh ton hon tt, hydn nhn cho n v t vo ng h s thng trc mangtn Chuyn i c. Phng php n gin ny tht s rthiu qu, c th gip bn lu tr c mi giy t.8. S dng mt trc ca ng h s. mt trcca ng h s treo, hy vit s in thoi, tn, a ch,ngy thng v cc thng tin lin quan n ch ccha ng trong n. Mt khi cn n,bn ch mang th mc y ra, nhn squa l bn c c mi thng tinquan trng. 29. 30 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE 9. Hy l ngi tin phong. ng h s treo cabn c th cha ng c mi th nu bn sp xp nmt cch khn ngoan. Hy tip tc sng to tm ranhng ng dng mi. Tht tuyt nu bn khng ch sdng h thng lu tr tm thi ca mnh m cn hnhthnh mt tnh yu tht s i vi n (v t ho gii thiun vi mi ngi). Chng hn, mt ngi ph n c thto ra mt ng nhng iu ngc nhin dnh cho cccon ca mnh nh hnh dn, cc cu ct ra t tp ch,nhng chic ti nha nh y ko do 10. Hy dn dp ti liu thng xuyn. Hy snglc ng h s treo ca bn khi n qu y. Vicny thng khng tn nhiu thi giannh nhiu ngi lm tng. Thc t,cc th mc c bn gii quytt trc nn sau khong mipht dn dp, ng h s ca bns ly li trt t vn c ca n. Nm b quyt c trt t lu di Bt lun l bn s dng ng h s treo hay l balu h s th chc chn c ngy chng s phnh ra. Thigian tm kim cc th ng trong s tng dn, thngtin s tr nn li thi cn s hng hi lm vic ca bn thgim xung. Nhng bn hon ton c th trnh c tnhhung ny. Nu p dng nhng quy tc n gin ha sau,bn chc chn c th kim sot c m giy t y. 30. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 31 1. Quy lut ba phn. Mi khi tm kim mt th gy trong ng h s ang khng ngng pht trin, hyly ra ba thng tin li thi. Hy nh rng nguyn lca s n gin ha lun lin quan n cc bc nhnhng yu cu bn phi thc hin ngay. Hy hi lng mikhi c mt mnh giy c cho vo st rc. N s lmnh cc th mc cng nh c tm tr bn v vic qun lthi gian ca bn.2. S trao i. Mi khi c thng tin mi c lu trvo h thng, hy qung thng tin c i ngay lp tc.ng xem giy t l ti sn vnh cu bi chng ch lnhng v khch tm tr m thi.3. Chin lc mi lc mi ni. Mi chiu, hyt mt ng h s treo, ba lu h shoc khay ng h s ln bn lm vicca bn. Ngy hm sau, hy xem quachng khi bn ang ngh gii lao hoctrong thi gian ch i gia cc cuc hn 4. Ngy ht hn. Hy ngy hthn v tr d nhn thy trn cc ng h s hoc ba lu tr, chnghn nh: Ht hn vo ngy31/12/11, hoc Lu vo ngy30/06/10. Bn cng c th dn mt li nhc nhloi b trong th mc tip theo hoc s hn ca mnh.5. n mng hon thnh cng vic. Khi bn hon ttmt cng vic no , hy r sot li tt c cc h s c 31. 32 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFElin quan v cc ba lu tr h s. Tr li hoc qung ttc cc giy t m bn khng cn cn n na. Nhngg cn thit cho ngy sau c th c cho vo mt ba lutr di hn. V cui cng, bn c th n mng thnh tchca mnh! Vy l bn lm vic ca bn sch s!Cuc tranh ua gia ngi c bn lm vic trng triv ngi c bn lm vic ngp giy t lun kt thc viphn thng nghing v pha nhng ngi bit gi cho mtbn ca mnh sch s. Qu tht, bn s khng th ngin ha cuc sng ca mnh nu lm vic trn mt cibn ngp giy t. y l b quyt quan trng nht: Hy t mi th sp xp sau lng bn. iu c ngha l bn hy ngmt ci t thp, mt ci k hoc mt ci bn dng vovic ny. Cun s ghi nh trn bn lm vic B quyt ny rt hu ch i vi nhng ai c thi quenghi nguch ngoc s in thoi v nhng mu ghi chtrn bn lm vic. Hy tn dng nhng lc rnh ri tphp chng li v dn tt c vo mt cun s. Vic lm nys gi cho bn lm vic ca bn c sch s trong khithng tin vn cn nguyn, phng trng hp bn cn nchng. 32. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 33 Sm xc nh s tch tNu bn khng lin tc dn dp th nhng ng babn s c hnh thnh t mt th rt nh. V nu bnkhng ngay t u th mt giy t khng c tng ch cng c th dn hnh thnh nn mt ng babn ln. Chng hn, cc bn sao k t ngn hng ang trnbn lm vic ca bn trong khi ba lu tr h s y.Bn cn phi lp mt ba lu tr mi nhng ci k ca bn cht y nhng ba lu tr nh th, chng cn chtrng no. iu bn cn lm lc ny l sp xp li chick v rt c th phi dn dp li c vn phng ca mnh.Tuy nhin, c th lc ny bnchng c thi gian lm vic. Kt qu: Cc giy t btu chng cht ln nhau. Khicn tm cc h s quan trngt ngn hng, bn bit chngang u y nhng khng ti no tm ra c. Khikhng can m ng u vi ng ln xn y,bn li tip tc lm y n thm. V vng ln qun y ctip din.iu ny khng ch din ra trn bn lm vic ca bnm cn c th xut hin bt k ni u, t cc ngh s, k sch, cc ngn ko, nh kho, t ln v t chntrong bp. 33. 34 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE Nhanh chng i ph vi nhng vn hin tiT kha c c mt mi trng ngn np ldng chy. Vn y khng phi l c qu nhiu thchy vo m l tnh trng ng do tc ca dng chyra qu chm. S khc bit gia vic tn tr giy t khpni v vic qun l tt cng vn nm ch ra quyt nhnhanh. Nu nhng th nm trong th mc "Cn lm"khng c gii quyt, n s ngn dng chy li, lm suyyu ng lc lm vic ca bn v khin bn cm thy btmn. V vy, hy gii ta chng ngay lp tc.Hy c gng cm nhn loi tch t ny. Hy lm mtcuc kim tra mang tnh quyt nh. iu g ngn cn bnt chc mi th ngay t by gi? iu g khin bn mincng lm vic ny? Liu c phi l mt ng h s treo,mt ba lu tr y p hay bn cha c mt ng h sdnh cho cc lnh vc hot ng mi trong cng vic? Hy nh rng nguyn l n gin ha lun c btu bng nhng bc nh. Bn khng cn phi thot khitt c nhng tr ngi cng mt lc v c l bn s khngbao gi lm c nh vy. Tuy nhin, nu bn nhn ramt vic g ang gy ra rc ri cho mnh, hy gii quytn ngay lp tc. ng tn thi gian m mng v mt giiphp tuyt vi. Chng hn, trong v d ca chng ti, vicny c ngha l to nn mt ba lu tr h s mi, thmch d c phi t n trn sn nh. Bng cch , bns ph v ci vng ln qun v bt u mt hiu ng tchcc. 34. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 35 Hy thc hin hnh ng lu di vi quy lut baphn t ng s hn n c c hi xut hin. ng i n khi cng vic cht chng mi ra tay giiquyt. Thay vo , hy hnhng khi h thng lu tr ca bnbt u c du hiu y, ngha lkhong 75%. t c thnh cng t cc ng h s theo tng bc Chng ti cp n iu ny phn trc. tng ch nn cm mt mnh giy ln mt ln duy nhtrt hay v mt l thuyt, nhng trn thc t, l iukh xy ra. C th bn cn n kin ca mt ngnghip in thng tin vo l n va c gi nnhng hin ti ngi y khng c mt c quan, hoccn tham kho cc ti liu phng lu tr thng tin hocphng k ton. Tuy nhin, nu bn n phng k ton ch hi mi thng tin y th tht chng ng cng t no.Tm li, vic hon thnh mt h s c th bin thnh mtqu trnh phc tp. V c th n s c chuyn sangchng h s c tiu : Gii quyt sau.V th l s hn n c hnh thnh. Chuyn giaBarbara Hemphill tng ni: S hn n bt ngun tnhng quyt nh b tr hon.Vn : C mt mnh giy trc mt bn. gii 35. 36 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEquyt n, bn cn phi lu tm n nhiu vn cnglc, ta nh phi xu cc ht ri rc thnh chui vy. Vcui cng, bn quyt nh s n sang mt bn. Gii php: Hy bt u bng cch chn xu ht utin. Hy chn mt trong cc hnh ng cn thit tinhnh bc tip theo. Bng cch ny, mi mnh giy mbn cm ln s gip bn tin thm mt bc. Hemphill tm ra mt phng php hiu qu trong vic lu tr giyt: cc ng h s tng bc. Hy lp cc ngn h s trong ng h s treo ca bn vi nhngming nh nh du m mu. Hyt tn cho ngn h s ny bng cinhn: Nhng bc tip theo. Nhngbc ny s khc nhau nhng chngm t cng vic ca bn. Mt s v d: Bn sao Thuyt trnh vi sp in thoi Tho lun vi... Lm vic vi phng k tonDi y l mt vi h s tng bc dnh cho mtnhn vin bn bo him: Hon tt cc th tc Gi n chnh vn phng 36. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 37 trnh cc kin ngh t vo h s khch hng Sp xp cuc hpLi ch ca vic lm ny l cc qu trnh cng loi c tp hp li vi nhau. V d, khi cm h s lu cc s in thoi, bn s c c mt danh sch cc cuc gi cn thc hin tip theo. V khi ,bn lm vic ca bn s duy tr c s ngn np. Khng c g gy hi cho lng hng say lao ng cata bng vic nhn thy mt khu vc lm vic hn n. Lcy, ta c cm gic nh n ang m thm hi mnh rng:Bn s bt u u y?. Ngay khi thit lp mt ng h s tng bc, bn nhn ra bc tip theoca mnh l g.Hy mang nim hnh phc n ni lm vic ca bn Hy bo qun cc ng h s ca bn trong iukin tt, thm ch chm cht cho v b ngoi ca n. Khigi cho mi th c trt t, bn s khng cn gp nhngvn gy phin toi nh h s b ng, ri vi ra ngoihoc cc nhn tn kh c. Khi mt ng h s hocmt ba lu tr b h, hy tin hnh sa cha n ngay lptc. ng i n ngy tng v sinh. (Nh mt quy lut, 37. 38 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEvic y s chng bao gi xy ra). Hy tr mt s lngtrang ngn, ngn ng h s mi, nhn dn v ba lu hs phng khi cn n.Hy dng nhng ba lu tr cht lng tt, c thitk p mt v d s dng. Vic u t mua smnhng vt dng xinh xn nhmt chic hp ng a mmthi trang, mt ci cc vuimt ng bt l iu cn thit. Khi ,bn s cm thy vui v khi sp xp li cc vtdng ca mnh. Hy ghi nh nguyn l vng ca vic dndp: mi th u c ch ca chng.Nu ng h s treo ca bn qu y trong khibn khng th no b bt bt c th g th hy chuynsang mt ngn ng h s treo c y rng bng nhahoc bng ba cng c sc cha ln hn. Hoc nukhng, bn c th to mt ba lu tr. B QUYT 3: V SINH MI TRNG XUNG QUANHHy b bt c, vtdng bi bn ch c th bay vihnh l nh nhng m thi.Nhng vt dng v ch trongnh v ti cng s gy nguy hi 38. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 39cho tm tr chng ta nhiu hn nhng g ta vn ngh. thc ca chng ta tuy hc cch pht l nhng chic kkhng gn gng hoc cn phng y c nhng n vnb khch ng v nng. N ch c t do khi ta tngkh nhng th y ra khi nh mnh. Tc ng ca cc ng ba bn v cch phng trnhTht thiu thc t nu bn mun dn dp mi ngba bn kinh nin ch trong chc lt. Vic chng cht c s bin thnh mt chng ngi vt tn cng c th vtm tr bn. Theo thi gian, thc ca bn hc cchng u vi n nhng tim thc th khng. Rt nhiunghin cu chng minh tc ng tiu cc ca cc ngba bn y i vi cuc sng ca chng ta. Hy cng xemxt mt vi tc ng y.Ni s v tng lai Nu bn tng cm thy btlc trc s tch t ca c,hn tim thc ca bn cng hnh thnh nn cm gic yu uikhi ng trc chng. V cm gic s chuyn sangnhng lnh vc khc ca cuc sng. ng ba bn lmsuy yu s pht trin ca bn bi chng c lin quan nk c v b cht bn vi qu kh. Li khuyn n gin ha ca chng ti: Hy ngh vnhng ngi c lin quan n cc vt trong cn phng 39. 40 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEca bn mt cch trn trng. Ch gi mt k vt p vgi tr nht lin quan n mi ngi v qung nhng th cnli i. Chng hn, k c v ngi d ca bn s c bit hnnhiu nu bn ngh n si dy chuyn bng ngc trai tuytp ca d thay v vi c t chn y nhng s TrungQuc li thi. Cng to ra nhiu ch trng cho cc vtdng mi, cuc sng tng lai ca bn s cng thoi mi. Bnh bo ph Hon ton nghim tc: ng ba bn trong phng cth khin bn tng cn. Qu tht, sau nhiu nm nghincu, Karen Kingston mt chuyn gia ngi Anh in kt lun gy hiu k ny: Nhng ngi sng ba bnthng d b tha cn. C th c s mp mp v vic shu nhiu vt u nhm mcch bo v bn thn bn. Bnhbo ph thng c lin quan nchng to bn v mt cm xc.Khi khng th bc l cm xc,bn s cht cha nhng s vicc rch trong lng v c th bn s ngng trao i cht chuyn sang phng thc tch tr. Li khuyn n gin ha ca chng ti: Hy thc hinch n king thch hp cho ngi nh ba bn cabn. Vic ny thng d dng hn nhiu so vi vic btu mt thc n n king cho c th. Mt ph n chobit c ngng vic n ung v khi sng trong mtngi nh gn gng v sch s. 40. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 41S chn chC mt mi dy lin h tng t gia s hn ntrong mi trng sng vi ng lc lm vic ca bn: Babn l nguyn nhn ca s chn ch. Qu tht, nhngng ba bn c kh nng phong ta ngun nng lngv ngn chn s tp trung ca bn. Li khuyn n gin ha ca chng ti: Khi khi lngcng vic ca bn qu ln, vic u tin m bn nn lml hy dn sch bn lm vic cng nh khng gian xungquanh mnh. Kt qu m bn nhn c s xng ng vithi gian v cng sc m bn b ra. Khi , bn s lmvic tp trung hn, hiu qu hn cng nh s cm thyhnh phc hn vi cng vic ca mnh. Hy xem bn lm vic chnh l hnh nh phn chiuca tm tr bn. Bt c th g ang nm trn bn lm vicca bn cng u c bn ghi nh trong u. Mt chicbn lm vic ngn np ng ngha vi mt tm tr c trtt. Hu ht mi ngi u v cng kinh ngc vi ngunnng lng m h c c sau khi t chc li mi thxung quanh. Khng ch hon thnh tt cng vic ca mnh,h cn tip tc hc tp trau di chuyn mn, thu hiu ccmi quan h hoc i ngh mt hi phc sc khe.Cc vn ti chnhng ba bn khin bn hao tn tin bc nhiu hnmi th khc. Nhng ngi am m su tp mi thngh rng h ang tit kim tin bc. Tuy nhin, trn thc 41. 42 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEt, ngun vn ca h ang bct cht vo nhng th cth s xi n mt ngy no y.H d b quyn r bi nhng li mi gi cbit ri quyt nh mua cc vt dng m chng h cnn. H chi tin bc vo vic mua sm k, va-li, t, hpv thm ch l sa sang ngi nh mt cch khng cnthit. Thng th h chng c thi gian s dng nhngvt dng bi h lun phi ch tm vo vic bo dngv ct tr chng.Nhng ngi thch su tm mi th thng sngtrong cc ngi nh qu ln. C th ni, khong 45%khng gian trong nh h c th c gii phng bng mtchnh sch cng rn.Li khuyn n gin ha ca chng ti: Hy dn dp!iu tt nht m bn c th lm l hy bt u dn dpngay t hm nay. Chng ti s ch cho bn cch thc hinnhim v ny ngay trong phn sau y. Phng php tt nht dn sch cc th Chng ta b vy quanh bi s hn n v b thng trbi nhng con rng hn lon l cch m nhng ngiBabylon c i nhn nhn v th gii. Trong m hn nnguyn thy , c mt qu bong bng b xu chnhl tri t ca chng ta. V nu chng ta khng cn thnth s hn n s li xm chim mi ni. Mt quan nim miu t chnh xc tri nghim ca 42. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 43chng ta trong cuc sng hng ngy: Trtt khng phi l mt hin tng tnhin. S hn n l iu m ta phi utranh mi ngy. Bn c th ni rng:Theo lut Murphy(2), mi s hn n ckh nng xy ra u s xy ra. Mt ngi nh hon ton sch s cng khng phi lch bn c c mt cuc sng n gin bi bn dnh qu nhiu thi gian lau dn n. Thm ch n cnc th tr thnh ngn ngun ca mi s cng thng trongbn. (ng dn v nh nhng v khch khng mun cigiy ra khi bc vo nh!). Vic dn dp v sinh c thtr thnh mt ni m nh khng ngng v ni m nh c th tr thnh trung tm cuc sng ca bn.S n gin c ngha l tm c ngha vng gias hn n v ni m nh. iu cng c ngha l bnchp nhn mt mc hn n nht nh vi thi hiha nhng vn khng u hng n. Khng ai ba bi bm sinh Khuynh hng mun gi li qu nhiu th khngphi l mt nt tnh cch c bn ca con ngi. Nhiungi m t bn thn l ngi ba bi v xem nh mtc tnh c hu. Tuy nhin, s tht th ba bi ch l mttnh trng tm thi. Theo mt cch no , c th so snhn vi tnh trng b m nh nh. Mi ni m nh l mt cuc tm kim v mi cuc(2) Lut Murphy: Khng phi l nh lut khoa hc m ch l mt pht biu hi hc rng: Nu vic gc th tr nn ti t th chc chn n s ti t". 43. 44 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEtm kim u cha ng mt ci li lnh mnh: Nhngngi thch su tm c thng xut pht t ng cmun gip ch cho ngi khc hoc bn thn h tngtri qua thi k thiu thn. iu duy nht cn lm yl ta hy chn tht vi chnh mnh v khuynh hng cani m nh y v hy kin tr xoa du h n xung mt mc hpl. Nu cn, hy nh mtngi no gip bn. Khi ni v nhng ngi ba bi, chng ta thng chc ni n nhng ngi c khuynh hng sng hnlon. Khi vic thu thp tr thnh ni m nh, n skhng ngng gy hi cho cuc sng ca h. Trn thc t,s gip chuyn mn l vn sng cn i vi nhngngi ny, tng t nh i vi nhng ngi nghin ngp. Hy bt u bng nhng bc nhMi ngy, bn nn gii quyt mt ngn ko hoc mtchic k thay v gng gnh c mt th thch khng l(dn sch ton b tng hm, thu dn tt c cc t quno). Hy phn chia cng vic thnh nhiu phn d tiu.Nu khng, lng hng hi trong bn s gim i trong khis hn n li khng ngng tng ln. Hy bt u bng mt n v c lp. c th l mt ngn ko, mt chick, mt khay ng h s, mt chichp, mt hp ng bt v cc thlinh tinh khc. Hoc bn cng c th 44. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 45chn bt u vi mt khu vc hoc vt dng dn schhon ton trong hai n ba ting ng h. Quy trnh nyc th gm nm bc:1. Tt c hoc khng g c. Hy dn sch mi th rakhi khu vc hoc vt cn dn dp.2. Lau chi sch s. Hy lau chi mi th cho n khichng tht sch s v hy hi lng v iu . 3. Ba iu k diu. Hy chia nhng mn cng trong vt dng y (lc ny ang nm trn sn nh)ra thnh ba khu vc: Tuyt vi. Hy xp mi vt cn hu dng vhot ng tt vo khu vc c ci tn p ny. Tuynhin, hy tnh to phn xt: mn y phi tht s tuytvi v gi tr. Tt nht l chng nn c mi lin h vi yut tnh cm bn cm thy yu thch v vui v khi sdng. Di y l mt vi cu higip bn quyt nh xem ci g nngi v ci g nn b i: Bn c sdng n trong hai thng gn ykhng, thm ch d ch mt ln?.Nu mt n, bn c thay bng mtci mi khng?. Nu mt vt dngc s lng nhiu nh nm cy btch, hai cun danh b in thoi a phng... th hychn mt ci tt nht v t nhng ci kia vo mt tronghai loi cn li. 45. 46 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE V gi tr. Khu vc ny dnh chonhng th h hng, khng cn cn thithoc c s dng t nht mt nm.Cc vt dng trong khu vc ny nnc cho vo chung vi cc vt liu tich v rc thi, ri sau vt itheo ng cch. Thm ch, bn cng c th cho tt c vomt ci thng v tng ai ang cn. Du chm hi. Nu cm thy qu kh khn trongvic quyt nh gi li hay vt b mt vt g th hy cho vt y vo khu vc c tn: Duchm hi. Nhng th ny c cho vo mtci thng (vi mt danh sch ghi nhngth c cha bn trong) v c mangxung tng hm, tng gc mi hoc ga-ra ct gi. Hy kim tra li nhngthng ny mi su thng. Khi , bn s kinh ngc nhnra nhng vt dng no bin i v nhng vt no cth b qung i khng cn n o. Nhng vt khng cs dng trong mt nm s t ng c o thi.Mt phng php khc c th gip bn dt khothn trong vic vt b c l chun b mt ngn kotrong mi phng ng nhng th linh tinh. y l khudnh cho nhng vt dng m bn khng bit cho vo loino. Tuy nhin, ng dnh ngn ko ln cho vic nyng thi hy cn nhc trong vic s dng n v thngxuyn dn dp. Sau ba thng, c th bn s qung i 80% 46. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 47nhng vt dng linh tinh y trong cm gic hon tonthoi mi. 4. Nhng th ging nhau. Hy t nhng mn nh vo trong cng mt hp. Ch bng cch s dngphng tin phn loi th bn mi c th dn dpthnh cng. Hy t nhng th cn tn ng vo v dnnhn cho nhng vt ng mi bng nhng dng ch to,r rng. 5. Hoan h! Hy vui v trn hn o sch s m bnva to ra v ng than vn v vic cn qu nhiu thphi lm. Hy tin tng rng mt khi p dng cch lmtng t, cc khu vc khc trong ngi nh hoc bn lmvic ca bn s tr nn gn gng, sch s.Tm ngi gip Mt trong nhng phng php hiu qu nht thngc cc nhm h tr nhau ca nhng ngi ba bn sdng l h gip nhau dn dp nh ca, phng c. Khic gip , bn s thc hin nhng nhim v m mnh tr hon by lu nay. Ngi gip bn s c mt cinhn thc t i vi cc vt dng bi h khng b rngbuc v mt tnh cm i vi nhng vt y. V hy nhittnh gip li ngi khi h cn.Sa sang li ngi nh ca bnTt nhin, ng p dng b quyt ny cho tt c cccn phng trong nh bn. Hy tin hnh tng phng mt.Phng php ny s tn nhiu thi gian nhng li rt hiu 47. 48 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEqu. Bn buc phi cm tng vtdng ln v ra quyt nh c mt trn tuyt vi, v gi trhay du chm hi. V mt iuchc chn s xy ra: Khi sng trongmt cn phng sch s, va c sn sa li, bn s cmnhn c mt con ngi mi trong mnh. Nhn bit nhng mt phng Gn nh tt c cc mt phng nm ngang nh bn,k, ra ca s... u c kh nng cun ht vt, ta nhc ma lc vy. Thm ch c sn nh, mt phng nmngang ln nht, cng l mt khu vc b e da. Hy ngin ha cuc sng ca bn bng cch gim thiu nhngmt phng nm ngang v gi cho nhng khu vc cn lic sch s. Chic bn c ph l ni m bn ch nn t cc vtdng c dng cho vic ung tr hay c ph. N chthch hp chng hoa v nn ch khng phi cc tp chtruyn hnh hay nhng cun sch. Bn n: khng g khin cho ngi ta cm thy bcbi bng vic phi dn dp bn trc mi ba n. Hygio dc cc con (v c bn thn bn) rng phi xem chicbn y l mt vng nng. N ch c dnh ring chovic n ung (v c th c dng gii tr vo bui ti).Mt phng dnh cho vic lm bp, nh tn gi can, l ni dnh cho cc cng vic bp nc. Vic nu 48. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 49nng s d dng hn nu bn c khng gian. Hy ra mt quy nh: ch nhng vt dng cn bn c sdng hng ngy (nh l my pha c ph hoc x phngra chn) mi c t trn mt phng y. Cn nhng vtdng khc nh chn bt phi c ct trong t chn vch c by ra khi cn thit. u t lnh c th d dng tr thnh a im tptrung ca bt c th g bn c th tng tng c. Hyt mt bnh hoa tht p hoc tm mt vi cch huch khc nhc nh bn khng c mi th ln .Hy tn hng vic rng m cc ca s. iu ng ngha vi vic bn phi gi cho ra ca s ca mnhtrng tri. Tt hn ht, bn nn t cc chu hoa lnkhung gi thay v xp hng chng ngoi ra ca s.Trong phng ng, nhng chic gh da v gh uc xem nh khu vc gieo mnh xung ca quno bn. Mt la chn tt hn l hy tm mt ngi huphng thi xa nh mt ci gi treo, mt so treo quno v cc ngn t ng chng.Cn phng c n gin han lc ny, hn bn bit b quyt ca s n ginha: Hy dn mt con ng thay v n h c cnh rng.Hy th p dng nguyn l ny vo mt phng trong cnnh bn xem liu bn c cm thy tt hn khi khngc nhng vt y. Mt cn phng gn gng nhng trangnh s to nn hiu ng m m cho bn. V d, bn c 49. 50 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEth bin phng khch thnh mt ni c t vt dng v rtnhiu ch trng. Hoc bn c th sp xp phng ng camnh thnh mt khng gian thin thanh tnh. S trng tri khng nht thit phi i cng vi s lnhlo. Mt mi trng km thn thin c to nn tnhng mu sc lnh, cc cht liu qu nhn, nh sng qusng v din tch qu rng. Him khi cm gic lnh lo lixut pht t vic thiu vng cc vt dng. Cc ngn ntrn v n pha thng to ra mt th nh sng kh chu.Tt hn ht, bn nn c mt vi ci n chun vi chiucao va phi. Tch tr ri li tch tr Chng ta thng tch cp nhiu th nh th inthoi, sch v, bao dim, tch c ph, th nhi bng, chi, tem... Vic lm ny khi ubng vic trng by mt vi th trn k ri nhanh chng lan khpc cn nh: giy dn tng, khntri bn, tranh nh, khn lt a,khn n, bt a bng s... Pha sau l mt nhu cuxy dng bn sc ca ring mnh bng mt th g y thtc o.Hy cn nhc k lng trc nhng vt m bnsu tp. Bn bt u su tp t khi no? Nguyn nhnca vic su tp l g? Liu b su tp ca bn c gnkt bn vi qu kh? Nu cu tr li ca bn l C thhy t b n. Thng thng, vic t b hon ton mt 50. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 51m hnh tu ha hay mt b su tp cp s d dng hnnhiu so vi vic gim thiu chng. Nu c th tng hocbn chng cho ai (v ngi bit tn hng chng),th hy lm nh vy! N s gip bn n gin ha cucsng v t c nhng iu mi m khc. Bn cn phn bit r vic su tp v vic ch gi nthun cc vt. Mt b su tp tht s phi c chuynmn ha v mang tnh h thng, chng hn nh nhngchic chn bng s c t v cng kiu dng hoc ccloi gu teddy. Nhu cu c c mt b su tp ca ringmnh l mt nhu cu chnh ng v hon ton xng ng bn b thi gian v cng sc. Tri li, vic ch n thun gi c l vic tch trkhng c h thng. Bn khng nht thit phi c chngtrong cuc sng ca mnh. Chng lm tn thi gian vkhng gian ca bn. iu ng ni l nhng th ny cth tip tc c nhn lnv n mt ngy, chng siu khin bn. Chngtiu tn thi gian v nnglng ca bn. Chng dn tr thnh nhng ph thibi v bn c qu nhiu v khng th qun l ni. C rtnhiu l do khin nhiu ngi lu gi c m mnhkhng cn dng n: lng tn trng (i vi nhng ngi tng qu cho mnh), d phng cho nhng lc kh khntrong tng lai, phi tn nhiu tin mi c c n...Bn cn xem xt li c ca mnh mt cch 51. 52 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEnghim tc. Thay v ha trn ngu nhin nhng k vt gitr ln v gi tr, bn cn chn lc cc th to ra mtb su tp theo ng ngha. Hy cho iPhng php ph bin nht gip bn qun l ccc vt dng ca mnh l giao chng li cho ngi thn. Hy kim tra ton b ngi nh ca bn v tp trungnhng th m bn d nh tng cho mi ngi li. Sau , hytng chng (nhng trc tin hy hi xem liu h c munnhn chng hay khng!). Cho i l mt trong nhng cch thctt nht thot khi nhng th m bn khng cn. n gin ha v cht lngHy ch gi nhng th tt nht m thi. Nh thSomerset Maugham(3) tng ni: Mt iu bun citrong cuc sng l nu bn ch ng nhn nhng th ttnht th bn s thng xuyn c c nhng th tt nht.Hy u tin cho cht lng thay v s lng. Hy hnhthnh cho mnh s thch phc v cho mc ch ca bnthn bng nhng th n gin. Nhn t quyt nh: Sn nh schNhng vt nm vng vi trn sn nh l du hiu cas ba bn. Bn s kinh ngc khi nhn ra cn phng camnh c th trng gn gng n mc no khi sn nh honton sch s. Cc bc tng, t chn, t qun o v nhngchic k y p cng s trng khng n ni t. T th k(3) Somerset Maugham (1874-1965): Nh vn Anh sinh ra ti Php. ng l mt trong nhng tc gini ting nht trong thp nin 1930 v l nh vn c tr tin tc quyn cao nht. 52. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 53XIX, ngi Shaker, mt cng ngrt sng o Hoa K, pht trintp qun treo tt c mi th lntng. Trong mi cn phng camnh, h u c nhng tm bng cgn mc treo chi, qun o vnhng chic gh (khi chng khng c dng n).Hy bin cc bc tng thnh ngun cm hng cabn bng cch treo ln cc th nh l nhc c, ti xchv cc vt dng khc c kh nng nm vng vi trn sn.Hy chn mt ni kn o nu bn khng thch nhn thynhng vt dng y v ng qu quan tm n chuynphong cch! Ngi nh l chic gng phn chiu tm hn bnMt khi bn bt u con ng n gin ha trongcc cn phng (v hy vng l bn hi lng vi kt quca n), bn c th xem xt ngi nh ca mnh mt cchc h thng v nh gi mi th tht lc quan. Mt tng c bn c lin quan n s n gin ha:ngi nh l hnh nh i din ba chiu cho cuc sng cabn. Gia th gii ni tm v cuc sng bn ngoi cabn lun c mt s tng ng nht nh. Ngi ta thng li nhng du n v hnh trong cn nh h sinh sng thm ch c khi h chuyn i v tt c c cdn sch. Nhng du n ny c tc ng ln ch nhntip theo ca ngi nh. Mi tn gio u c cc nghi thc 53. 54 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEring trong vic ban phc lnh v gt ra khng giansng. c mt khng gian sng tch cc th yu cuquan trng nht l bn phi dn sch tt c mi th v bi nhng vt dng khng cn thit. Hy kim tra ccphng c trong ngi nh ca bn v hy khm ph ra skt ni gia bn vi khng gian sng quanh mnh. Tng hm: Qu kh v Tim thcVic lu gi nhng vt dng khng gn gng trongtng hm l du hiu ca nhng cng vic ni bt m bnphi cng ng. S d bn khng qung chng i l v bncho rng chng c th tr nn hu dng mt ngy no. Chng c th l du hiu cho thy rng tm tr bnang bn khon v mt vn g cn gii quyt, chnghn nh gnh nng t b con, mt b mt ca gia nhhay mi quan h vi mt ngi no .Nhng th vn vt trong tng hm cng c th trthnh nguyn nhn trc tip khin bn cm thy chn nnv u ut. Chc chn tng hm l mt ni ct tr tt nhng nch dnh cho nhng vt dng m bn s dng t nht minm mt ln. Hy sp xp mi th sao chocc vt dng u c th d dng lyra, t vo. Mt tng hm sngsa, gn gng v c thnggi tt s khin bn thy vui vhn. Bn s nhn ra rng mnh cc mt ngun nng lng ti mi 54. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 55 ng u vi cc vn tm l m chng ti cp n pha trn.Tng gc mi: tng v Tng lai Ni ct tr y p s cn tr s pht trin c nhncng nh chuyn mn ca bn. Nu thot c nhngmn qu lu nim, k vt hay qun o c, bn s phttrin cho mnh tm nhn mi m bn cha bao gi nghti.Mt tng gc mi c trang hong tt c th l nithch hp nht cho cc hot ng sng tonh vn chng hoc hi ha. Nu bnln k hoch to ra mt phng lm vic ti nh th tng gc mi l ni tt nht. B phn u no ca cc cng ty ln thng t vn phng ti cc tng thng,cng ging nh nhng con chim u n vn thngchn ch u cnh cy hoc tng cao nht.Nh kho: T do c nhn ca bnThng thng, nu nh bn khng c tng hm haytng gc mi th bn s trng dng mt cn phng khcthnh ni lu tr nhng vt dng khng c chca n. Nhng cn phng cht ta nhtng nng chim lnh tm tr bn. Chngkhin bn nh mt cm gic thch th cngnh tr tng tng ca mnh. Hy dnsch hon ton nhng cn phng y hoc 55. 56 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEt nht hy gi cho khu vc ct gi c c sch sv c trt t. Hy thng gi cho cn phng thay v lcno cng ng ca im m. Khu vc cng ra vo: Mi quan h gia bn vnhng ngi xung quanh n tng m ngi nh ca bn mang n cho cc vkhch phi l n tng do bn to ra. Hy s dng mony: Mc mt chic o khoc ca ngi khc, ri khi nhv quay tr li nh th bn l mt ngi khchl. Hy c gng nhn nhn bng con mtca ngi khch y: cy ci r cnh gycn tr li i, chng giy ph liu tcha ng ch, gi treo o khoc y p, ri giy dp, gng tay, khnchong v nhng chic nn nm vng vikhp ni.Hy gi cho khu vc ra vo nh bn c sch s vthn thin. Bn s sm c c nhng ngi bn mi vcm thy vui v hn khi bc vo nh mnh. Cc cnh ca: S ci m ca bnHy m bo rng tt c cc cnhca (c bit l ca trc) nh bn cth m rng ra. ng treo bt c th gtrn tay nm ca cng nh ng baogi t t qun o, t chn hoc k gycn tr cho vic m ca. Hy sa cha 56. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 57nhng tay nm ca b hng, tra du vo cc kha vbn l b rt. Hy t mt bng tn trng thn thin, thitrang v d c ngay ca vo nh bn. Chng ti thcch lm ny v cm thy thoi mi hn khi lm vic.Phng khch: Tri tim ca bn D c thch hay khng th hnh tng ca bn cngt nhiu b nh hng nu tnh trng phng khch trongngi nh bn ba bn hoc qu cng nhc. Khng gianphng khch ca bn nn cmt trung tm, c th lmt chic bn ung c ph,ni mi ngi t hp. ng chic ti-vi tr thnh tmim ca cn phng. Bn c th s dng cy cnh hoccc vt trang tr thu ht s ch ca mi ngi trongphng. nh sng hi ha v nhng ch ngi thoi mi smang n cm gic d chu cho mi ngi. Hy to ramt ch ring t trong phng khch bn c th tnhng cm gic hnh phc khi nh mt mnh.Nh bp: D dy ca bnKhng c phng no trong nh m s quay vngca cc vt dng li cao bng nh bp: a, tch, ly v b n c ly ra, s dng, ra sch, riem ct..., v c nh th mingy. Tuy nhin, c nhng chick v t chn ch c s dngvo nhng dp c bit vi ln 57. 58 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEtrong nm. Nhng vt dng khng c s dng n vcc thc phm qu hn s dng t lu to nn mtm ln xn.Vic dn sch t chn trong nh bp c th mang ncho bn cm gic nh nhm v theo , kh nng tiuha ca bn c ci thin v s cn d tha s bin mt.Hy sp xp li mi vt dng khng cn thit trong nhbp ca bn, thc n ht hn, nhng ci tch st m, ccm ng tr v c ph li thi... Cc thit b nh bp chc s dng vi thng mt ln nh l khun bnh, luin... th nn em xung tng hm hoc nh kho. Nhngchic a vui mt v cc loi ly c kiu dng k l ch cs dng vo nhng dp c bit cng nn nh vy.Hy phn nhm cho cc loi vt dng v t chngvo nhng ni ct tr ph hp. V d:xc xch, ph mai v da chua choba n nh th cho vo t lnh; btnng bnh, ng v bt trn lm bnh th trn k thc phm...Bn ra chn, t lnh v bp l l b ba tc chintrong nh bp. Khng nn t bt k vt g gy chngngi gia ba im ny. Bn cng cn c mt khng giantrng t bn lm bp. Hy treo cc dng c nu nng ln tng bngnhng chic mc dnh cht hoc nhng ci mc ckhoan c nh vo tng. 58. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 59Sn nh: Tnh trng ti chnh ca bnChng ti cp n ngha ca mt sn nhsch s. Khi tt c cc loi t v k u y p th sn nhs phi ng vai tr ct tr. Cc chng giy t, nhngchic hp, qun o, giy dp v tt c cc dng c stc i s t do di chuyn ca bn.Mt quan st gy kinh ngc l nhng ngi sngtrong ngi nh c sn ba bn hu nh lun gp phi ccvn v ti chnh. Khi khng th di chuyn thoi mitrong nh, chng ta t gii hnbn thn v lm cho i sng vt chtca mnh sa st. S phn thnh cabn ph thuc vo khong trng snnh m bn c c. C th xem snnh rng ri, thong ng l biu tng ca s giu c.Ngy nay, phng v bn lm vic ca cc sp bao gicng c gi sch s mt cch c ch ch.Hy mt n sn nh ca tt c cc phng trongcn nh bn v dn sch chng. Hy ngh ra nhng cchthc mi ct gi c. Nu cn thit v c kh nng,hy b tr ni tht mi trong nh bn.T qun o: C th ca bn V c nh gim cn nn nhiu ngi gi linhng b qun o c nh ngy trc. Nhng iu ngni l ngay c khi h thnh cng trong vic n king thnhng mn y cng khng cn ph hp vi h na. 59. 60 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEChnh v th, hy lm theo cch ngc li: em cho tt cs qun o qu nh so vi bn v hy mua nhng b quno thoi mi, va vn vi bn vo thi im hin ti. Cchtt nht gim cn l hy to mt mi quan h tch ccvi c th ca bn. Nu bn ght d dy ca mnh th ncng s chng thm m xa n nhu cu ca bn u.y l cch n gin ha t qun o ca bn.Hy s dng nhng li khuyn di y, lit k nhngth cn kim tra v bt u phn loi chng ngay lp tc.Gc t tt nht. Hy treo tt c nhng th m bnmc thng xuyn trong hai thng qua bn tri cathanh treo qun o. Cc o thun, o c bu... m bnmc thng xuyn nn cho vomt ngn c bit. Tm v tr chonhng mn khng ph hp vima hin ti, gi d nh khi bn nirng: Ti s mc ci khi tri nng (hoc lnh). S lng ph khng gian. C n 98% kh nng rngbn chng bao gi mc li nhng b qun o m mnh khng mc sut mt nm qua. V vy, thay v dnh chcho nhng b o qun y, hy dn sch chng i! Thmch, d nhng mn kh t tin hoc l qu tng cangi thn th n cng hon thnh ngha v v n lcphi ra i (cho i hoc quyn gp t thin, vo ca hngbn c, hoc vo thng rc). 60. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 61Khi u mi. Gi l thi im ca s sng to. Hykim tra cc mn yu thch nht ca bn trong gc ttt nht tht cn thn. Ti sao bn thch mc n? Liu cphi l do ng ct may, kch c, mu sc, cht liu? Victr li cc cu hi ny s mang n cho bn cc tiu chun thc hin vic n gin ha c nhn v thit lp hthng cho chic t qun o ca bn. ng mua nhng mn xa x nhng li nhanhchng khin bn pht chn. Hy chn nhng b qun on gin m bn c th mc trong midp. Hy u t cho nhng b qun om bn mc thng ngy thay v chquan tm n nhng b cnh c bitc dng trong cc dp l lc. Chict o cn c t chc theo quy c v khng ch dnhring cho mt ma c th no. Tuy vy, vi cc ph kin(c-vt, khn chong, trang sc), bn c th theo mt vthm ch to nn khuynh hng mi.Phng tm: Phn ct li trong ni tm bnPhng tm phi l mi trng m trong bn cmthy mnh l tm im v khng b lm phin bi bt kiu g. Hy giu nhng chai l v cc vt dng thngdng trong phng tm sau cnh ca v sp xp khnggian cho cy king hoc nhng th m bn thch khc.Nhng chic khn tm mi vi mu sc hoc ha tit pmt l kiu trang tr phng tm mang li nhiu li ch nht. 61. 62 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE Phng ng: S ring t ca bn Phng ng thng l ni cm k i vi cc v khch. l l do v sao n thng b dng sai mc ch v trthnh ni ct tr tt c mi th rc ri. Cn nh rngphng ng l ni bn qua m nn n cn c s hiha v trt t. Hy dn dp nhng th c th tr thnhngun gc ca mi cm xc tiu cc trong bn, chnghn nh qun o bn, nhng chic hpng c v nhng vt dng hhng. ng ct gi bt c th g di gm ging ca bn, ngoitr khn tri ging v chn. Bncnh , hy kim tra cc ngn t.Chng ai cn n bn mi i v hoc mi lm chico thun li thi c. Mt cn phng ng ngn np smang n cho bn gic ng su hn v thm ch l c mti sng v chng mnh lit hn. Nhng mn tp nhp: Gnh nng ca bn Cp da, ti xch, ti qun l nhng vt dng m bncng gi ghm chng bao nhiu th chng li cng tngtrng cho nhng gnh nng ln cuc i bn bynhiu. Nu bn ang chun b dn dp li nh ca, phngc th hy kim tra cc ti ca mnh. Hy gi cho bn thnlun cm thy nh nhng trong cuc sng hng ngy.Hy bt u bng nhng th nh nht, chng hnnh ci v ca bn. Hy ly ra tt c cc ha n, cc loith qu hn s dng. ng mang theo qu nhiu tin 62. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 63xu. Hy sp xp li tin giy ca mnh theo tng mnh gi.iu ny s gip bn qun l ti chnh ca mnh tt hn.Hy hnh ng theo nguyn l rng nhng vt ngoi thnlun nh hng n ni tm ca bn. thit lp trt t lu di trong ti xch v cp da camnh, bn cn phi chia nhng th c ng trong rathnh nhiu n v mang tnh c nhn khc nhau. Sau yl su n v quan trng nht.n v 1: V tin. Bn cnh tin giy v tin xu, chicv ca ta c th cn cha thm th tndng, ngn phiu, bng li xe v ccgiy t ty thn khc.n v 2: Trng hp khn cp. Mt chic ti xchc dy ko vi cc vt dng s cu thng,chng hn nh du gi, sp thoa mi,thuc nh mt, bng keo c nhn, daogp b ti, kim may v bn chi nh rng.n v 3: Chic ti xch c bit ca tr con.Mt ti xch khc ng nm v gi, mtmn chi nh, vi ci bnh quy, t,kem bi kh trng hoc mt vi th hudng khc khi mang con ra ngoi. n v 4: Vn phng mini. Dngn gin nht l mt cun s sp xp thigian hay mt chic my in t dng t chc cng vic. Ngoi ra, bn cng cn 63. 64 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEc thm mt cy vit, mnh giy ghi ch Post-it(4), temth, my tnh b ti...n v 5: Mc cha kha. Cng nh cng tt. Dmun n to hn d tm kim th bn cng ng dngchic mc kha nng n. Tt hn l bnnn s dng loi bng da n khnglm cho ti xch hay ti qun ca bnnng tru. Tuy nhin, mt khi bn chia nhng vt dng trong ti xch ra thnh nhiun v th chic mc kha khng cn cn phi ni bt cho d tm na.n v 6: in thoi di ng. Bn thn vt ny chnhl mt n v. Hin nay, nhiu ti xch v cp da c mtngn c bit dng cho in thoi di ng. Nu s dngnhng loi ti xch ny, bn s khng cn n chicv bc knh cng cho in thoi ca mnh na.Vi s gip ca cc n v c phnchia r rng ny, bn c th nhanh chngchuyn t ti xch ny sang ti xch khc.V mi chic ti c mt sc cha gii hn nnbn s nhanh chng nhn thy nhng th khng cn thitc tch ly trong y v s sp xp chng li. Li th ln nht ca vic h thng cc n v l bnch cn mang theo bn mnh n v no m bn tht scn. y l mt vi v d:(4) Post-it: Loi giy ghi ch c keo dnh c bit mt sau c th d dng dn vo u vcng d dng g i, c nhiu mu sc v kch c. 64. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 65 i mua sm: n v 1, 5 v c th thm n v 6. i mua sm cng vi con ci: 1, 3 v 5. Mt cuc hn v cng vic: 1, 2, 4, 5 v 6. i ra ngoi vo bui ti: 1, 3, 5. (n v s 6 vnmang theo phng nhng cuc gi khn cp. Tuynhin, nn rng in thoi di ng l mt miphin toi i vi mi ngi xung quanh nu bnang trong rp chiu phim hay bui ha nhc).Cu thang: Cc c hi pht trin ca bn Nu sng trong mt ngi nh cao tng, hn bn cngbit n thi quen cht c cc u cu thang. Tathng t nhng mn m ta d nh s mang ikhi i ngang qua n. Cc ng ny c th tr thnhnguyn nhn lm ny sinh nhng s hn n khc. Trongnhng ngi nh hn n, cc bc cu thang c th v trthnh khu vc tch tr ln. Thng ip m tm tr bn tipnhn c l ng i ln b phong ta. N cngging nh l sn nh ba bn vy:Bn v thc phong ta nhngc hi mi ca mnh. Hy tha thun vi tt c cc thnhvin trong gia nh rng c ch c th ct di chn cu thang nu chng sp c emln tng trn. Bt c ai rnh tay u phi nht nhng th di chn cu thang v mang chng i.Trong nh bp, hy s dng mo chic st ca tng 65. 66 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEhm. Hy chun b mt chic st ln c quai xch vtha thun vi mi ngi rng mi th cn c mangxung tng hm phi c cho vo chic st (v chai, vtliu ti ch, qun o, thc phm d tr). Bn cnh ,bn cng tha thun vi mi ngi rng bt c ai i xungtng hm cng phi mang chic st y theo v ctnhng th cha trong vo ng ch ca chng. Hthng ny cng mang li ch li l ngi mang chic sti c th s dng n ng nhng th m ngi ymun mang t tng hm ln. Nhng li khuyn quan trng cho vic dn dpHy tm ch cho tt c mi th. Nhng cun schhng dn cch vn hnh cc thit b in t c th sdng lu di nn c ct gi ngay pha di thit b y.Hy lm mng nhng cun hng dn s dng y bngcch ch gi li phn hng dn bng ting m cabn. Bn cnh , hy ha n v phiu bo hnh cacc thit b m bn va mua vo . y l mt likhuyn tht s hiu qu c th gip bn tit kim ckhong trng. Nu cc nt bm hoc cng tc c nhng biu tngkh hiu, hy s dng nhng nhn dn cha nhiu thngtin chi tit hn. Bn c th dng bt d khng bay mc vit ln cc v bc bngnha. (Sau ny bn c th tych mc y i bng dung dchty ra c gc du ha). 66. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 67Mt phng php hu hiu khc l s dng cc cons ch th t ca cc nt bm . Trn mt chic my phac ph, nhng con s y c th l: 1. Cng tc m; 2. tcc bn di; 3. Nhn nt ly c ph; 4. Cng tc ng.Su nguyn tc vng gi cho mi th c trt t Tht tuyt vi nu bn c th duy tr c trt t cngs n gin ha. Trong giai on u, hy bm st sunguyn tc gi s n gin ha v trt t di y; v nucn thit th hy in n ra, t nhng ni m bn munthit lp li trt t:1. Nu ly ra th g y, hy t n v ch c.2. Nu m ci g ra, hy ng n li ngay sau khi s dng.3. Nu lm ri vt g , hy nht n ln.4. Nu ly vt g xung, hy treo n ln li.5. Nu nh mua mt mn g y, hy ghi n ra giy.6. Nu mun sa cha mn g y, hy lm vic y trong vng mt tun.Hy thot khi nhng k vng ca mnhCh ngha hon ho l mt trong nhng tr nginghim trng nht trong vic to dng mt cuc sng 67. 68 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEngn np, thoi mi v hnh phc. Tt c chng ta u cnhng gii hn nht nh v mt nng lc. Chuyn giangi M Barbara Hemphill ch ra rng vn ca nhngngi thiu ngn np khng phi l s thiu t chc mchnh l do h thiu tm nhn.Nhng ngi ny c mt tmnhn phin din. V ch thynhng g mnh cn phi thynn h b che khut mt tm nhn tht s vnhng iu h c th lm. Dn dn, h mt ingun nng lng dng gii quyt cc cng vic hinti. H nh mt kh nng nhn thy bc tranh ton cnhv tng lai cng nh s nng n ca bn thn. B QUYT 4: KHC PHC TT NG TRKhong 90% mi ngi phi tm kim cc mn btht lc. y l kt lun c rt ra t th nghim ca vinnghin cu EMNID Bielefeld. Vt m ngi ta thng tmkim nht l cha kha: 42% s ngi chi cho bit h hay ni cu v c philin tc tm kim chm chakha ca mnh. Bt bi ng v tr th hai trong danh schnhng mn b tht lc(khong 25%). ng th ba l 68. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 69mt knh (19%) v v tr tip theo thuc v nhng chic v(16%). Nhng ngi di ba mi tui thng phi tmcha kha nhiu hn nhng ngi ln tui. Vt thng bnhng ngi trn nm mi tui t sai ch nhiu nht lcp mt knh (hn 40%). Khng c khc bit ln gia namv n trong vn ny. Ph n gp nhiu rc ri hn trongvic tm kim cc chic v nhng li gi cha kha tt hnn ng.D trong trng hp no th vic ng tr ny cnggy nn s lng ph thi gian. N tc ng tiu cc ntm trng ca ta nu ta cm thy cng thng khi tm kim.Tuy nhin, iu ng mng l chng ta hon ton c thkhc phc tt ng tr ca mnh.H thng t duy gip bn tm thy cc mn Vy chng ta c th lm c g? iu ha hn nhtchnh l to ra mt nguyn l trt t m theo , cc mn u nm ng v tr ca n. Nhiu ngi ra giiphp t cha kha mt ni nht nh mi khi tr v nhnhng li khng kin tr thc hin theo n. Nguyn nhnl ni t cha kha y khng c no b h ghi nhmt cch su sc. y, s kt hp gia tr nh v phngphp hc tp thn thin c thmang li hiu qu cho bn.a im duy nht. Hy tmmt ni gn ca ra vo. Bn hyt mt ngn t, mt ci mc 69. 70 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEhoc mt chic hp ng cha kha sao cho d vi taynht. Bn cng c th p dng cch lm tng t vnphng ca mnh. Mu sc duy nht. Hy nh du a im y bngmt mu sc ni bt. Chng hn, bn c th dn bng keomu bn ngoi ngn ko, sn bng treocha kha bng mt mu khcbit hoc s dng chic hp trn bn c mu ni bt. Cchlm ny s tc ng n bn cuno phi - bn cu no nhy cmvi hnh nh v mu sc - v n s d ghi nh chng hn. Tn duy nht. Hy t cho ni y mt ci tn khngln vo u c: Ngn ko mu xanh dng (nu l chic ngn ko c mu xanh dngduy nht trong nh ca bn), Cihp c hnh ngi sao (v nc trang tr bng nhng hnhngi sao ni bt). Ci tn y sgy n tng c bit i vi bncu no tri. Tuy vy, bn nn trnh nhng ci tn quphc tp, chng hn nh ngn ko trn cng trong ci tt cnh ca trc.Vic s dng mt ci tn ngn gn, sc tch c th gipbn d dng a ra thng ip hoc ch dn cho ngikhc (Hy t cha kha vo ci hp c hnh ngi sao!).Hoc khi cm thy cng thng hoc vi v, bn c th ni 70. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 71ngn gn rng: Cha kha ngn ko mu xanh dng!. Nhng cm xc tch cc. Thnh cng ca hnh ngnh ny c th tr nn to ln hnnu chng mang n cho bnmt cm gic d chu. V d,hy mt t hn hp cccht thm vo trong hp ngcha kha chic hp ta rahng thm m bn a thch. Hoc bn c th t nhngvt liu m bn thch vo trong ngn ko ng cha kha,chng hn nh mt khc la , chic cha kha hcnh m i trong . Mi th u c ch ca chngHy thit lp nguyn tc ct tr cho cc vt dngthng b t sai ch, v d nh v tin, mt knh hocnhng cy bt bi. Sau y l mt vi nguyn tc m bnc th la chn: V tin lun cng vi cha kha. Khi bn vnh, n s c cho vo ngn ko ng cha kha. Lun gi mt knh bn mnh (trong ti o s mi,trong gi xch hoc trn si dy chuyn). Gi nhng cy bt bi trong mt chic hp ngvit t cnh in thoi. Hoc bn cng c th tmt cy vit vo mi chic cp da v ti xch tin s dng. 71. 72 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE Cc chuyn iTrong cc k ngh hoc chuyn cng tc th vic giv tin, cha kha phng khch sn, giy t ty thn... bnmnh cn quan trng hn so vi nh. Hy tp thi quenchn mt ni xc nh ct gi nhng th quan trngy, chng hn nh chic bn t cnh ging ng cngcc ngn ko ca n, hoc mt ngn trong vali ca bn. m bo rng bn khng b qun bt c th gquan trng li khch sn, hy xc nh h thng ct gica mnh ti . Di y l mt vi la chn hu hiu:Phng php tri tim. Nhng th quan trng nhtnn t ngay trn tri tim bn.Trong chic ti trong ca o khoc lchic v tin (gm tin mt, th tn dngv cc giy t ty thn khc).Nu di chuyn bng xe la, xebut hoc s dng cc dch v cngcng, bn c th gi v xe trong tio s-mi. Ph n thng ct gi tt c nhng th lt vt trongti xch ca h hoc mc mt chic o khoc c nhiu ti.Hy i du lch vi hnh l nh nhng. Hyct nhng loi giy t m bn khng cndng thng xuyn trong sut chuyn itrong hnh l ca bn. Hy s dngbal bo v lng ca mnh. 72. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 73Trong nhng chuyn i di, bn c th gi nhngchic cha kha ca mnh (th m bn ch cn khi bn trv nh) trong mt ngn c nh ca chic ti du lch. Thtk cc nu bn i vng quanh cc ni cng vi chic chakha nh lun trong ti qun!Tm cha kha khch sn. Chic ti ngoi ca okhoc nn c dnh ng cha kha phng khch sn.V nhng l do an ton, chng tikhuyn bn nn mang theo chakha bn mnh thay v gi li quy tip tn. Nu cn thit,hy tho chic mc khacng knh ra v n litrong phng. Nu khch sn mbn lu tr dng th t th tt nht l bn nn gi n trong v cng vi cc loi th tn dng ca mnh. Mt li khuyn nh b sung: Hy xin mt tm danhthip ca khch sn t quy tip tn khi bn lm th tcnhn phng v gi n cn thn. Bng cch y, bn s luntm c ng tr v khch sn. Nu bn i du lch nmt t nc khng ni ngn ng m ca mnh thbn nn a a ch khch sn cho ti x taxi. Nu sau khiri khi phng m bn nhn ra mnh qun trong th bn cng c s in thoi ca khch sn lin lc.Mt nguyn tc m bn nn ghi nh l: Nhn thytrc him ha c ngha l trnh c mt na himha y. Ngay khi quyt nh tm kim gii php bo qun 73. 74 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEcha kha v v tin ca mnh th bn thc hin xongbc quan trng u tin. Bn c tin b ng k trncon ng tm n s n gin. Thay v l n l canhng vt mnh s hu, bn lm ch c chng. 74. Chng 2n gin ha vn ti chnh 75. B quyt 5:Thot khi nhng tr ngi vtin bcB quyt 6:Ph v li nguyn v tin bcB quyt 7:Thot khi n nnB quyt 8:Thi lo lng v s bo mB quyt 9:Nu quan im ring v sgiu c 76. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 77Gic m n gin ha ca bn: m th ba Bn tm thy mt ni tt p tng th nht ca kimt thp v m ra mt li i bng qua nhng m babn m trc y bn dng nh khng th vt qua.Bn ht sc ngc nhin khi pht hin ra mt cu thangtin dng cui li i m bn m ra. Th l bn ttin bc ln cc bc thang y. Bn t m khng bittng tip theo s nh th no. Bn k vng rng trngn s khng qu gn gng so vi tng bn di, nhngiu bn trng thy by gi y ang m thm p libn. Cm gic y ta nh bn ang trn chic tu lnsiu tc ca cm xc khi bn i vng quanh tng th hainy. Va mi y bn cn thch n, cn cm thy hnhphc v ho hc. Nhng gi y, khi va trng thy n,ngi bn nh cng v kinh hi. Bn thy s hi vlo lng, ti li v n nn, hi hp v chn ngn. utin, bn rt gan gc v can m; nhng ngay sau ,bn cm thy lng l v thn trng.Mi th bn trng thy xut hin rt tht nhngng thi cng rt l tng, ging nh nhng hnh nhkhng ngng thay i trn mn hnh ti-vi. Bn c cm gic nh th l bn ang tin rt gnn nhng gic m ca mnh bc ny ca kim tthp cuc i. S kht khao ca bn dng nh angng tr y v c v nh chng c p ng.Th nhng chng my chc, chng li tr nn xa xi 77. 78 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE khng th t. Nhng gic m ny ni v iu g? y l gic m v hnh phc v s an i, hy vng v ni s hi, h tin v phung ph. Bn nhn ra ti chnh l ch ca cu chuyn ny, nhng bn tng tng v vic i vng quanh vng t ny mt cch rt khc bit, khch quan v hon ton khng c cm xc. Nhng chic k y p tin v cc bn sao k ca ngn hng, chng khon v th thanh ton. Nhng bn thy rng vng t ny ch ton nhng s tht cng nhc. Mc tiu n gin ha tng 2Hc cch lm th no c lp v ti chnh m khng vng vo nhng rc ri khc. Trong th gii vt cht, chnh nhng iu vn vt mil nguyn nhn cn tr s pht trin ca bn; khi ni nvn tin bc th chnh nhng ngh v cm xc cabn v tin bc lm iu tng t . 78. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 79 B QUYT 5: THOT KHI NHNG TR NGI V TIN BC T nm 1955, mt vin nghin cu cng ng c tin hnh phng vn nhng ngi i din cho milnh vc trong x hi v kinh nghim sng.Tr li cho cu hi Bn c hnh phckhng?, 30% s ngi c hi kin nhtr li C, bt chp mc sng ngycng tng cao. Trong khi , vi cu hi:iu g nh hng ln n hnh phcca bn? th tin bc chim v tr ng u qua nhiuthp k. 80% ngi c cho rng t do v tin bc l iukin c c cuc sng hnh phc. Khi ti giu c, ti s hnh phc! l li pht biukhin nhiu ngi khng c hnh phc. Nu hin ti,bn ang khng hnh phc v hy vng mnh s hnhphc hn khi c c nhiu tin hn th iu c nghal bn ang m mng ho huyn. Li khuyn n ginha l hy thay i trt t ca hnh phc v s giu cnh sau: Nu ti sng hnh phc th c hi giu c cati s r rng hn. Ngn ng Ty Tng c cu ni rtng n v s giu c nh sau: Mt ngi l giu ckhi anh ta bit rng mnh c .Ch mua nhng th m bn tht s cn v hy ch icho n khi bn c tin. Hu ht mi ngi u lngph rt nhiu thi gian mong mi rng cuc sng s 79. 80 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEkhc i. Cha kha dn n hnh phc l hy tn hngnhng g m bn ang c, thm ch l d v b ngoi can chng c g tn hng. Pht trin s thanh thnCon ng n gin ha ca vn ti chnh chang iu nghch l: bn ch c c nhiu tin hn khibn bung b n. Bn cng c nu cht tin bc th conng i n s giu c ca bn s cng b phong ta. Tuy nhin, bung b khng c ngha l th .Khi ni ra nhng cu nh: Ti chngquan tm n tin bc, h dng nn mt tr ngi i vi sgiu c. Trong khi , mt ngibnh thn thng ni rng: Tis lm vic chm ch v nm btmi c hi pht huy ht kh nng ca mnh nhm tc thnh cng. Nhng nu iu khng mang li hiuqu th ti vn c th sng thanh thn. Hy can m Hy hnh thnh trong u mnh nhng ngh mnhm v vit chng ra giy bng mc in m: ng l tiang mc n. Nhng hng triu ngi trn th gii ny xoay x tr ht cc khon n ca h nn ti cng slm c nh th. C rt nhiu ngi c nng lc nh tinhng h li kim ra nhiu tin hn ti. Chnh v th, tis c gng nhanh chng c nh h. 80. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 81Hy thay i cch s dng ngn ng ca bn khi cp n vn tin bc v thu nhp: ng ni Thay vo , hy ni Ti khng th Ti c th Ti khng bit lm th no Ti s hc cch Ti c g ti Ti s c Pht hin ra nhng ro cn t duyBn pht hin ra nhng tr ngi quan trng nhttrong tri tim mnh v ang c gng thot khi chng.Bc tip theo, bn cn nhnra tr ngi no ang chi phin tm tr mnh xung quanhvn tin bc v s giu c.Di y l bn chng ngi vt ph bin nht.Nhng iu cha m ta thng ni V thm nhun nhng li rn dy ca cha m nnchng ta lun mang theo chng trong tim thc ca mnh:Nhng ngi giu thng chng c bn b, Tin bcchng th mua c hnh phc... V th, s giu c tr thnh khi nim tiu cc i vi nhiu ngi, d cth h rt coi trng ch li ca s phn thnh. Li khuyn n gin ha ca chng ti: Thay v ni:giu c hay c rt nhiu tin, hy din t: S clp v ti chnh. 81. 82 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE Nhng ni lo lng Nu th...iu g s xy ra nu ti tht nghip?, Nu chuynlm n ca ti tht bi th sao?... l nhng ni lo lngthng trc ca nhiu ngi. iu ng ni l nhngngi dnh qu nhiu thi gian suy ngh v s tht bithng s nhanh chng tht bi tht s. Hu ht nhngngi thnh t u bt u bng vic t b nhng ni lolng y v bt tay vo hnh ng bng tm nhn rngm.Li khuyn n gin ha ca chng ti: Hy hnh thnhtrong tm tr mnh mt hnh nh hp dn, r rng mtmc ch sng tch cc m bn mun t c. Gic m may ri Hy cn thn! C nhng tm nhn to ra cc tr ngi.N bao gm gic m c pht hin nh mt ngi sao,trng s hoc c k tha ti sn ln. Vn l nhng tng ny s khng thc y bn hnh ng. Khng chth, chng cn buc bn phi th ng ch i v hyvng mt cch ho huyn. Li khuyn n gin ha ca chng ti: Hy thi ttin bc vo v s v cc dng c bc khc. Thay vo ,hy quyt tm kim ra mt s tinnht nh trong vng mt nm vcon s phi tng ng vi stin va phi m bn c th nhnc nu may mn trng s. Trong 82. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 83tiu s ca nhng ngi thnh t, ta d dng nhn ta hcng tng lm nhng cng vic lm thm nh giaobo, ph bn... D l cng vic g chng na th cmt iu lun r rng rng: Nhng ngi thnh cng lnhng ngi hng say lao ng v khng bao gi hi lngvi vai tr nn nhn.Nhng li bo chaNhng li bo cha thng l nhng cu c cu trc:Ti mun nhng. Hy ngh v n nh sau: C haiv ca cu ni y u t bn m ra, c mong mun v sbin h. Chng hm cha s tht rng bn phong tacon ng ca chnh mnh. Sc mnh lng khao kht cabn ch c th b chnh bn thn bn km gi m thi. Bnc th sng trong hi tic hoc t c thnh cng,nhng khng th no c c hai th cng lc. Nhng ngithnh cng cng c nhng ngh Ti mun nhng,nhng h tin tng rng v u tin tc l s mongmun ca h, lun mnh m hn v sau.Li khuyn n gin ha ca chng ti: Hy ni vnim khao kht ca bn theo cch: Ti mun v ti st c iu bng cchTin bc l thc tNhiu ngi lo lng khi cm thy tin bc dn tr nnqu quan trng trong cuc sng ca h. H nh n likinh thnh cnh bo rng: Ca ci l ph du. Mc dnhng li cnh bo ny l hp l nhng trong cuc sng 83. 84 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEthng nht, n dn n xu hng xem thnggi tr ca ng tin, chng hn nh cch dint ny: Anh ta lm vic y ch vtin thi. y l li nhn xttiu cc. Suy ngh phn i nys khin cho vic kim tin v gi tin s tr nn khkhn i vi nhiu ngi.Vo thi trung c, c mt hc thuyt rt th v v bnnguyn t. Vng v tin thuc v nguyn t t - y lnguyn t ti tm, nng n v ngn ngang nht. Nhng sgiu c ch c th c to ra y, bi hnh ng vthc t lun thuc v nguyn t t.Hiu bit c bn ny c th gip bn hiu c mcch ca tin bc. Bn c th ao c c c tin bc hocc nhng tng kim ra tin, nhng bn ch c th lmra tin thng qua hnh ng. tng khn ngoan nht vmnh m nht khng th gip bn tr nn giu c nuchng khng c hin thc ha bng qu trnh lao ngvt v, chm ch, kin tr v thm ch cn bun chn na.Mt iu ph bin: cc ha s thng c ca ngibi mt tng c o, nh vn c ca ngi bi cch x l tnh hung ti tnh, vn ng vin cca ngi v ch st thp. Theo , chng ta c n tng rng ch cn c ngh, tng hay ch thi cng ta tr nn giu c. Nhng c tn vinh, ha s phi 84. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 85tht s v nn bc tranh, vn s khng ngng sng tc vvn ng vin phi luyn tp mi ngy. V tin bc c mi lin h vi t v thc t nn nng vai tr rt quan trng trong vic nh gi cuc sngca bn. N l chic phong v biu o cuc sng cabn thc t n mc no. Hajo Banzhaf tm lc iuny bng cu ni: Vn tin bc l vn thc t. Ttin bc c th c thay th bng thut ng thc ttrong rt nhiu cu pht biu. Ti c nhng tng rthay nhng ti li khng c tin c ngha l Ti khngc kt ni vi thc t. Ti ch tha mn khi ti c tin c ngha l Ti ch tha mn khi ti bit chp nhnthc t. Thm ch c li pht biu mang tnh ch trch uphn ny (Anh ta lm vic y ch v tin) cng chng cv g l tiu cc nu chng ta ti thit n nh sau: Anhta ton tm ton tp trung vo thc t. y l l doti sao tin bc l mt phng thuc hay i vi nhngngi c bn cht ngh s hoc thin v tm linh. Ni tmca h s sng r nu bn thn h c th chuyn t quanim tiu cc v vt cht sang s thu hiu xc thc hnv gi tr sc lao ng ca mnh thng qua thc o tinbc. 85. 86 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE B QUYT 6: PH V LI NGUYN V TIN BCVic c lp v mt ti chnh cngha l bn c tin t khi phibn tm qu nhiu v n. Bn s tc iu khi thu nhp ca bncao hn nhu cu mt cch ng k.V th, li khuyn n gin ha y l bn, hoc gim thiu nhu cuca mnh, hoc gia tng thu nhp. Hytham kho nhng bc n gin ha di y: Qu nhiu ca ci s cn tr dng chytin bc ca bnBn phi chi nhiu tin mua sm nhng thmnh mun. Bn mun gi mi th ngn np cmnhn c s giu c ca mnh v rt s mt mt. iung ni l ni s ny cp i c hi gt hi cnhiu th hn ca bn. c im ca nhng gnh nngv hnh l n khng ngng gia tng v sn sinh ra nhngmi bn tm tiu cc. S tin dng mua sm nhngmn khng to ra ca ci vt cht l s tin cht. Vngtun hon mang tnh sng cn ca tin bc b ph v. l l do ti sao cng vic dn dp c miu t bc1 ng vai tr quan trng trong vic ci thin tnh hnh tichnh ca bn. 86. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 87 S cng nhn lm cho bn giu c ln Nhiu ngi ngh rng h ch cm thy mnh giu ckhi s hu tht nhiu th. Nhng chng ta tht s ch giuc khi c mi ngi xungquanh cng nhn iu . Vth, hy gn b vi conngi thay v ch quan tmn c. Nhng th quantrng nht trong cuc sng khng th cmua bng tin: v/chng, con ci, ngi thn, bn b.ng dn mi s quan tm ca bn vo nhng th mbn c th mua bng tin.Tin bc c ngha l vic s dng cc c hiBc tip theo t c s giu c tht s l hyp dng phng chm: Cng t c th cng nhiu tin.Bng cch ny, bn u t cho tng lai ch khng phihin ti. Tin bc nm trong vng tun hon lun c chi gia tng, bt k l chng khon, bt ng snhay khon u t cho cng ty ca mnh. Ngc li, khidng tin mua sm c, ngha l bn ra quytnh v khng cn t do la chn na. Hy ngh v tin bc nh mt vng quay cn vnhnh mt cch tri chy. Ngay khi bn quyt nh khngxi tin na, ngha l bn lm ngng dng chy y. Mtx hi m mi ngi u tch tr tin bc s mi nghonn. Ngc li, x hi no s dng tin trong mt vng 87. 88 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEtun hon s pht trin v cc c nhn trong x hi y skhng ngng kt ni vi nhau. Nhng ngi kinh doanh l nhng ngi tringhim c iu ny. Khi thu nhp gim xung, h btu tit kim tin. Nhng mi quan h lm n ca h ti v s d dt ca h cngc bc l. l mt vngln qun. Trong nhng thiim khng hong, iu ttnht m bn nn lm l hy ut vo vic qung co v PR bi khi , nhiu ngi chpnhn gi hp ng thp thot khi s tng qun. B QUYT 7: THOT KHI N NN Cm gic Cuc sng ca ti qu phc tp! thngxut pht t tnh trng bi chi trin min. Nhng khon ntn dng tiu dng di hn (tc l nhng khon n khngcn phi th chp ti sn) chnh l biu hin ca s rilon v vn tin bc. N bt u bng nhng khon chinh ri dn pht trin thnh nhng khon n ln hn.Oliver E. l mt nh bo ni ting. ng lm vic cngy ln m, thm ch c vo nhng ngy cui tun vnhng chuyn i ngh. D lm ngh t do nhng ngkim ra nhiu tin n ni khin nhiu ngi ganh t. Hbo vi ng rng: Hn anh ang cun trn trong c ng 88. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 89tin!. Nhng s tht li khng phi nh vy. Oliver lunmc n v ng phi lm vic qun qut tr ni n nnlun ngt ngng khong 25.000 -la. ng chp nhnmi loi cng vic v c th ng dn c nhng du hiuca bnh tt: au lng, bo ph, nhy cm vi cc chtkch thch v thi tit lnh. ng mun dnh nhiu thigian hn cho bn thn, nhng bng cch no y? Gim bt gnh nng n nn Oliver E. l mt v d in hnh cho cc nn nhn catnh trng mt cn bng trong ni ti - mt hin tngm Hajo Banzhaf tm thy trong gn 80% ca nhn loi.S cn bng ni ti ny thng ng nht vi ng hnmc tn dng ti ngn hng: Nhng ngi c cho phpthu chi khong 25.000 -la thng mang n trongkhong con s . Chnh tim thc dn n iu ny.Trong khi , nhng ngi khng c php thu chi skhng rt qu s tin h c v kt qu l h ch tiu xitrong gii hn cho php ca mnh. n nh s d ti thiu Gii php n gin ha: hy thm n nh s d tithiu trong ti khon ca bn, chng hn nh: S D TITHIU L 2.500 -LA. Hy m bo rng sd trong ti khon ca bn khng baogi thp hn con s . iu ny rt ttcho tm tr bn v n chng tn kmca bn bao nhiu thi gian c. 89. 90 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEng tin ma thut Tin bc khng ch l phng tin trao i hay chi trm cn l thc o c nh hng n nhiu lnh vc khctrong i sng ca chng ta. Mt ti khon b bi chi trongnhiu thng hoc nhiu nm s gy ra cng thng chongi ch ca n, mt cch c thc hoc khng thc.Ngc li, mt ti khon vi s d an ton hoc mt chicv y tin mt s mang n cho ta cm gic y , thoimi. Vy th mi quan h y l g? Liu chng ta chnh phc hn khi c nhiu tin hn trong ti khon? Sau khi phn tch v cc khch hng ca mnh, RalphTegtmeier mt nh t vn u t i n mt ktlun gy kinh ngc rng c mt s nghch l: theo bnnng, nhng ngi khng hnh phc thng to ra gi trtiu cc trong ti khon ca h. Tim thc cng nhngni lo lng v hnh, s nghi ng v ni s hi cnhn mnh bng cch ny con s m trong ti khonca bn. Tm tr bn v thc iu khin vic ti khonca bn c s d hay s n.Theo Tegtmeier, tin bc l nhng biu hin bnngoi ca cc qu trnh t duy bn trong. Bn cn phinhn ra chng v ng u vi chng. V ri thc t bnngoi s din ra theo tm nhn bn trong ca bn. Vic thu hiu mi quan h ny gn nh l mt giiphp i vi Oliver E. ng tho lun v ni s hi camnh vi mt chuyn gia v vn tin bc. ng khng 90. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 91ngng lo s mnh s ging nhcha, ngi tng b ph sn vphi chu cnh lm cng nlng cc kh c i. Oliver lm vic chm ch hn v thnh cng trong s nghip. NhngOliver sng xa x hn so vi nhng g mnh c rikhng ngng lo lng cho cuc sng ca mnh. Vn l mtngi ho phng, ng tng mi bn b n nhng nhhng sang trng, mua sm cho bn thn nhng b cnht tin cng nh c nhiu chuyn du lch xa hoa. ngmua mt cn h chung c t tin v lm vy ng s tphi ng thu hn. ng cng mua bo him nhn thvi mc cao v lun lo s v tng lai. Oliver E. cng nhn ra rng ng v thc hnhthnh cm gic rng a v ca ng c nng cao thngqua s tn nhim ng c c. Ngn hng a ranhng hn mc tn dng rt hp dn i vi cc khchhng ca h: N i din cho vinh d v bng chng cas tn nhim. Khi mc n n con s 25.000 -la, nhiungi li v thc t ho rng: Theo nhn nh cangn hng th ti ng gi n 25.000 -la. Tht khngmay, h qun rng mnh phi tr cho ngn hng stin li rt ln ch v vinh d y. Mt khi hiu c nguyn nhn su xa ca viclm chi lin tip ca mnh, Oliver c th quay v vi stht n gin v cc vn tin bc cng nh n nn. 91. 92 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE Nhng cch thot khi n nn Vic n nn c th gy ra tn hi nghim trng nlng t trng ca bn. Nhng ngi mc n thng cmthy ti li, xu h v yu km! Hy lun t nh vi bnthn mnh rng: Ti khng phi l mt ngi xu v mcn; ti ch l mt ngi qun l tin bc km m thi. Mi khon n nn u c th c gim bt, thmch d n c v bt kh thi vo lc u. Nhiu ngi giiquyt c cc mn n ca mnh tr thnh triu phsau y, bi v trong lc tr n, h pht hin ra sc mnh ch ca mnh. Sau y l nhng bc quan trng nht: 1. i din vi s tht. Hy ni vi nhng ngixung quanh v cc khon n ca bn, ng nhin lkhng phi vi tt c mi ngi m ch nhng ai bn tintng. Bn s nhn ra rng n nn chng phi l iu btthng v bn khng phi l ngi duy nht mc n. Vicny s gip bn loi b cm gic xu h. Trn ht, hy nivi cc thnh vin trong gia nh mnh v cng vi h bnbc cch gii quyt mn n . 2. ng tiu xi nhiu hn s tin bn c. Bc nych n gin vy thi. Tuy nhin, nhng khon vay c suyxt l trng hp ngoi l, chng hn nh vay u t vo cng ty hay u t vomt ti sn no (gi s n khngqu t). Tht kh khn nu bn chmua nh khi c tin, th nn vic 92. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 93vay mua nh l iu nn suy xt. Tuy vy, hy trnh xanhng khon tn dng tiu dng khng c lin quan nti sn c gi tr n nh. ng bn thn b quyn rbi mt chuyn du lch xa hay ni tht mi! Khon vay mua xe cng c th l mi nguy him ivi bn. Cc chuyn gia c vn v vn n nn cho bitnhiu ngi lm vo cnh n nn ch v vay tin mua xe. Nhng chic xe hi b rt gi rt nhanh chng.Nu mt ngi vay tin mua mt chic xe c gi 18.000-la v khng th tr li cho khon vay y th sau mtthi gian, anh ta s c mt khon n khng l trn 18.000-la (gi ca chic xe cng vi tin li), trong khi chicxe ch cn c gi 10.000 -la. Nu phi bn n i, anh taphi gii quyt s n trn 8.000 -la cn li trong khichic xe khng cn.3. Hy thanh ton bng tin mt. Ngy nay, nhiuca hng ua nhau lp t cc thit b s dng th tndng ti quy tnh tin. Thng thng, khch hng chi xigp i mc trung bnh khi h khng phi mang tin mttheo bn ngi. S dng v l cch lm n gin nht gipbn qun xuyn tnh hnh ti chnh c nhn ca mnh.Nhiu ngi giu c (v mt s ngn hng) rt tin tngvo vic chi tr bng tin mt, ngay c khi h khngngng qung co cho cc loi th tn dng. Mt chic vy tin mang n cho bn cm gic thoi mi ca mtngi giu c v khng bao gi chi nhiu hn s bn c.4. Hy kim tra s n trong ti khon ca bn. 93. 94 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFETheo mt dch v t vn khch hng Bavaria, cc khchhng c nhn b mt khong 800 euro mi nm t tikhon ca h cho nhng khonkhng cn thit, chng hnnh nhng khon ng gpkhng thch ng cho cc hiphi m h ri b, hocnhng khon quyn gp cho cc t chc m h khngcn l thnh vin t lu. (Mt iu khc, x s v cc dngc bc khc l nhng khon u t ti; v ni mt cchnghim khc, chng ch l mt khon quyn gp tt bngcho nh nc m thi). Hy xem xt k lng nhng khon mc chi tiutrong nm qua ca bn. Hy kt thc cc mi rng buc,v tt nht l bng vn bn r rng.5. Hy h thp mc sng ca bn. n gin hacuc sng ca bn l mt cch thc c bn nht. Hy tnh vi bn thn: Vic ny khng phi l mi mi, nhngtrong giai on ny, ti cn phi sng tht gin d. Sauny ti s t ho v nhng g mnh t c.Nu cn mc n, bn hy tmngng chi mt mn th thao xa xno y tit kim. Hy tm honnhng k hoch mua sm ln. Hymua sm thc n v dng hngngy c gi hp l. Hy trnh nhngth xa x. Hy "tht lng buc bng. 94. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 95 6. ng quen vi vic mc n. Ngay t by gi, hygii phng bn thn khi tnh trng n nn lin min.Nhng ngi quen vi vic n nn c khuynh hngtip tc qun xuyn tnh hnh ti chnh ca h theo cchc. Chnh v th, h chng bao gi thot c dng xoyn nn c.7. Mi ng tin u qu gi. Nhng ngi lm vicchm ch thng ngh rng vic gia tng thu nhp quantrng hn vic ct gim chi ph. Nhng ngi bit cchqun l tin bc th lm chai vic y! Nu bn lmvic nhiu v kim ranhiu tin th cng ng tthng cho bn thn bngcch tiu xi qu mc. Hy tip tc cn nhc k cng khimua sm nh lc bn cha giu c v hy s dng nhngg mnh tit kim c to dng gia ti cho mnh. 8. Hy sp xp li cc khon n ca bn thn. Nunhng khon n di hn ca bn qu cao th cch cuicng gii quyt vn ny l hy s dng ti sn camnh mt cch hp l. Nu bn c mt ngi nh hoc mtcn h chung c nhng bn thng xuyn rt qu s tintrong ti khon ca mnh th bn c th tn dng phngthc cho vay th chp, hnh thc cho vay ny c mc lisut lun thp hn mc li sut i vi vay tn dng. Bnc th s dng phng thc vay tin ny c khi bn chngmun xy hoc sa cha bt c th g. V d, bn c th 95. 96 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEhuy ng c 10.000 -la bng cch vay th chp tisn vi mc li sut l 6% trong thi hn nm nm. Mcy ch bng mt na so vi mc li sut hin ti m bnphi tr nu bn vay tn dng (11%). y l iu m cc ngn hng khng my hng hithc hin. Nhng bn s cm thy thoi mi hn khi tinhnh. Tuy nhin, hy cn thn: ng khinh sut khi thys tin gia tng trong ti khon ca bn. Cc khon nvn cn : Chng ch tn km hn m thi!9. Quy lut hai ngn ni. D mc n rt nhiuchng na th bn cng nn dnh t tin tch cpthnh ti sn ring ca mnh. Vic ny nghe c v tht vl i vi nhng ngi ang gp rc ri v ti chnh.Nhng y l cch duy nht bn thot khi h su cas n nn. Hy thng xuyn tr chuyn vi cc ch n ca bnv thng lng v mc hon tr thp nht c th. Trongkhi bn t t h thp ngn ni n nn bng phn na thunhp ca mnh th bn ng thi cng dnh c mtngn ni tin tit kim bng phn na cn li v bn cth em u t n mt cch khn ngoan c th kimmt t tin li. im ct yu y khng phi l s tinli kim c m l cm gic tch cc khi bn nhn thymt th g y ang dn pht trin ln sau khi phi thngxuyn nm tri cm gic tt dc. Mt ngy no , c haingn ni s ngang bng nhau v bn s tr ht n nn. 96. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 97 10. Hy hc hi t vic ny. Hy tip tc tn tin mtthi gian sau khi tr ht n nn. Hy s dng s tinbn tit kim c u t cho tng lai. Hy coi giaion mc n ca mnh l khong thi gian hc hi quantrng. Mc tiu hc tp y l m bo rng nhng iutng t nh vy s khng xy ra na! Nhng khon n c th l du hiu ca vic bn v thc b rng buc vi mt ai y trong gia nh, ngi b i x bt cng bng. y l lc m liu php tml c h thng c th h tr cho bn, tim thc ca bnkhng y bn vo mt giai on n nn khc.Hy tha thun vi ngi bn i ca mnh rngkhng ai c k mt hp ng quan trng (chng hnnh hp ng tn dng, bo him hoc u t) m khngthng bo trc vi ngi kia; ng thi hy cp ntha thun ny vi ngn hng hoc nhn vin bn bohim. iu s gip bn khng tin hnh nhng mirng buc qu hp tp. Nu bn ch bo: Ti s suyngh v vic ny th c th nhn vin bo him s cthuyt phc bn. Tuy nhin, c th h s t b nu bitbn ang tm s ng thun ca ngi bn i ca mnh. 97. 98 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE B QUYT 8: THI LO LNG V S M BO Thu nhp khng phi l vn mnh m chnh l mtci cy v bn c th vun trng n. Hy xem li quanim ca bn v vn ny v hy s dng nhngnguyn tc di y. Kim tra quan im v tin bc ca bny l mt bi kim tra nh. Trong mt chng trnh vui, bn c hai s la chn: a) 100.000 -la mi ngytrong vng 28 ngy, hoc b) 1 xu vo ngy th nht, 2 xuvo ngy th hai, 4 xu vo ngy th ba, 8 xu vo ngy tht cho n ngy th 28. Hy a ra quyt nh ca bn! Dng ca bi kim tra ny l thi ca bn i vitin bc c nh hnh ngay t thi th u, nhngcch ng x i vi vn tichnh c th c ci thin bngmt cch thc gin n: s tnhton. Trong bi kim tra trn, bn s c tng cng 2,8 triu-la nu chn phng n a). iu ny bn c th bit rrng ngay tc khc. Nhiu ngi a ra quyt nh datrn nguyn tc: Hiu sao lm vy v chn phngn n gin ny. Trong khi , nhng ngi khc li cmthy hn phi c mu mo g y nn quyt nh chnphng n b). Nhng phng n ny ch mang v cho h 98. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 992.684.354,56 -la, t hn khong 115.000 -la so viphng n a). Bi hc t th nghim ny l bn khng nn a racu tr li ngay tc khc. Nu cn trng v vn tin bcth trong nhng trng hp nghim tc, bn khng nna ra quyt nh ch da trn cm tnh m cn phi bittnh ton thc t na!Hy tm cng vic mi mi nm mt lnThc t, bn khng cn phi thay i ch lm. Tuynhin, bn nn thng xuyn quan st cuc sng bnngoi. Nhiu ngi thng khuyn nh ta rng: "Nu tmc cng vic tt th hy cng hin ht mnh cho n, ribn s c tng thng xng ng". D y l mt likhuyn khn ngoan nhng n khng cn ng vi thc tna. Cc nh t vn hng nghip nhn mnh rng nhngngi sut i trung thnh vi mt ng ch ngha l h t nh mt c hi kim c nhiu tin hn.Chnh v th, cc nh t vn khuyn khch bnnn thay i ch lm t nht hai lntrong na u cuc i lm vicca bn c thng tin.Chng ta ch nn tp trung pht trin s nghip cng ty u tin ca mnh nu c thng chc sm hnthng l. Nh mt quy lut, mi ln thay i cng vicl mt ln tch ly thm kinh nghim cho bn thn v giatng thu nhp. 99. 100 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEV vy, gia tng thu nhp, li khuyn n gin hadnh cho bn l: ng qu hi lng vi v tr ca mnh.Hy c cc thng bo tuyn dng. Hy tm hiu v cccng ty khc. Hy thng xuyn cp nht tin tc. uc mi trng lm vic tt? u ph hp vi chuynmn ca bn? Hy np n xin vic t nht mi ba nmmt ln nh mt s th nghim, ngay c khi bn khngc nh nhy vic. N s gip bn cng c lng t tinkhi bn bit rng nhiu cng ty khc cng mun c cs cng hin ca bn. N s m rng th gii ni tm cabn ng thi cng to nn tng bn m phn li vn lng bng vi cng ty hin ti ca mnh. Ngoi ra,bn s trnh c nguy c tht nghip nu chng maycng ty ca bn b ph sn, phng ca bn b gii thhoc bn thn bn b sa thi.n nhn thin ch ca ngi khcNhiu ngi c kh nng a ra likhuyn, gip ngi khc dn dp,chm sc ngi cao tui nhng li khngdm nhn tin th lao cho nhng vic lm y.Hy rch ri trong chuyn ny: D c i hith lao th bn cng chng h h thp sc laong ca mnh m ang gia tng gi tr ca n. Nu nthun gip ngi khc, bn to ra s bt bnh ng:bn mnh m v ngi kia yu ui. Nhng nu bn ng ngi kia tr cho bn mt s tin hp l th s btbnh ng kia s gim i. Vic ny tt cho c hai bn. 100. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 101 Hy ng thi lm c hai vic: Gip ngi khc cth lao v lm vic t nguyn khng nhn tin. ng baogi ni: Quy tc ca ti l khng nhn tin. Khi , bns khng xc phm n nhng ngi ho phng v thchcho i.Nu kinh doanh trong lnh vc dch v, bn s thngxuyn nhn c nhng li yu cu gim hoc min thlao v mt nguyn nhn hp l no y. Trong trnghp ny, nu mun vn c i ng, bn c th a ramt tha thun vi bn thn mnh: Ti s quyn gp 5%(hay 7% hoc 10%) cho nhng mc ch hoc nhng tchc m ti tht s tin tng. Nu mi thng Chn m bn chi ht con s d nh ca mnh th bn c th honton thanh thn khi t chi nhng li yu cu y.Can m yu cu mc lng cao hnNhng ngi lm ngh t do thng c tr th lao mc c n nh t trc. Cc mc th lao cn nh ny thng phn nh chnh xc tn gi ca n.N c gi nguyn mc nh th trong nhiu nm, thm chl nhiu thp k trong khi mt bng thu nhp khngngng tng ln. gii quyt vn ny,bn cn n lng can m: hygii thch vi khch hng nguynnhn ti sao mc th lao hin cl khng tha ng. ng e da s ngng hp tc vi h 101. 102 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEnhng cng ng e ngi nu kh nng y xy n. Hyt nh vi bn thn: Mi th u ang tng gi v cckhch hng ca mnh cng bit r iu . Chnh v vy,h cn h tr mnh khi mnh a ra yu cu. iu ny cng tng t i vi nhn vin ca cccng ty, x nghip. Nu bn c th chng minh rng cngvic ca mnh gp phn mang li li nhun cho cng tyth bn cn nhn c th lao xng ng. Nhng iu nn v khng nn lmi vi s nghip ca bn thnh cng trong s nghip th bc u tin lbn phi c khao kht t c thnh cng. Rt nhiungi khng th tin b trong cng vic ch v h vtnh phong ta tng v mt s nghip ca ring mnh.Cng ging nh ch v tin bc, nhng tr ngi ny clin quan n cc nh kin v nhng s tht ch ngmt na.Ch nhng k nnh nt mi c thng chc mtcch nhanh chng; Bn ch c th thng tin khi gimp ln ngi khc; Bt c ai c trch nhim u philm vic nhiu hn nhng ngi khc; a v cng caoth t s cng au l nhng quan im v ngha, d cth chng cha ng mt t s tht trong .Hy b ngoi tai nhng thnh kin y v thay thchng bng nhng cu ni mi. Nhng v tr cao hn lunc mc lng hp dn hn. v tr cao hn, bn s c 102. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 103tm nhn rng ra quyt nh. Nhngngi ng u c lng t trng caov h lun c i x tt hn (thmch l c con ci v v/chng ca h cngi x vi h tt hn). S thng tin mang ncho bn nhiu iu cng nh bn s cm thytha mn hn trong cng vic. Bn cnh , n khincho vic chuyn n mt cng ty hp dn khc tr nn ddng hn. Nh thng l, con ng n gin ha i t ngoivo trong. Khi ni n vn ngh nghip, phng chmn gin ha ca chng ti l: Nu mun thnh cng, bnhy c x nh mt ngi thnh cng. Di y l mt stnh hung in hnh trong cuc sng cng nhng phnng ng v sai trong mi tnh hung.Mt ng nghip c thng chc cao hn bnTrc , hai bn vn lm vic cng nhau trong mtphng nhng gi y, ngi ng nghip y tr thnhcp trn ca bn.Thi ca k thua cuc: Bn bt u gy kh d vph bnh ngi ng nghip c ca mnh. Bng cch ny,bn chng t cho sp ln thy rngquyt nh ca ng l hon ton ngn v bn khng phi l ngi thchhp cho v tr cao hn.Thi ca ngi thng cuc: Hy phn tch (sau c 103. 104 - HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFEsc ban u) nhng g m ngi ng nghip ca bn thc hin tt. Hy thng thn hi sp ln xem liu bn cth lm g ginh c c hi vo ln sau. Sp lin tc i hi bn lm thm gi Bn hiu rng chng ai c thng chc nu h lmvic vi tm l "cho ht gi". Nhng liu c phi bn anglin tc lm vic mi mt ting ng h vi mc lngr mt?Thi ca k thua cuc: trnh tranh ci, bn cvin l do mnh khng phi lm vic vo bui ti. Bnkch ng cc ng nghip trong phng ph hoi cng ty.Hoc bn min cng mnh b bc lt. Thi ca ngi thng cuc: ng t chi quthng xuyn. Hy xem sp ca bn l khch hng quantrng nht v t nh rng quan h lm n vi ng tht s rt quan trng i vi bn. Nu cm thy qu cng thng, bn nn xin ngh mt ngy hoc yu cu mt quyn li khc cho mnh. Nu bn c th va th hin s tn tyva can m bo v quyn li ca mnh th sp ca bns tin tng rng bn c kh nng qun xuyn c lich ca cng ty khi v tr cao hn. Ngn qu ca bn b ct gim bt k ni u, tt c mi ngi u ang c gnght mnh tit kim chi ph. Trn thc t, vic ct gim 104. B QUYT N GIN HA CUC SNG - 105chi ph s gip ch cho cng ty bn rt nhiu nhng khingun ngn qu ca mnh b ct gim, c th bn li chorng c ai ang c tnh chi xu mnh. Thi ca k thua cuc: Bn c gng ly li nguntin bng cch qua mt sp. Bn cnh , bn lm vic ti v khng ngng than vn. Thi ca ngi thng cuc: Hy tp trung tm kimnhng gii php khc thay th. Chng hn nh nu kinhph h tr i li b ct gim, bn hy tin hnh lin h quaInternet hoc th bo. Hoc bn cng c th tm kimnhng ngun tin mi t tin thng, tin ti tr t cckhch hng mi. Hy xem vic ct gim kinh ph nh mtth thch chng minh nng lc ca mnh. Tuy vy, bnnn thng thn ni r nhng tc ng tiu cc ca vic ctgim y thay v im lng chp nhn.Sp phn bc kin ca bn trc mt cc nhnvin khciu ny lm tn thng bn! Tuy vy, iu an i:y ch l mt phn trong cuc sng ca ngi nhn vin.Thi ca k thua cuc: Bn tr ming ngay trcmt mi ngi; hoc gin di trong sut thi gian cn lica cuc hp; hoc phn nn v cch i x khng cngbng y vi nhng ngi khc.Thi ca ngi thng cuc: