Linh hot trong i

x Hy dnh thi gian v tr lc hon thnh cng vic ca

mnh. Nh rng, bn khng th p buc thi ca mi

ngi, nhng bn li c th hon ton lm ch chnh mnh.

C th bn khng thch mt ai khng tng hp vi bn,

nhng ng th hin iu y ra qu r. Bi khng bit u,

nay mai bn li trong tnh trng ging anh ta th sao?

Phn bit i x lm cho mi ngi trnh xa bn, cn nu

nh bn b k khc i x khng tt, hy hc cch b i

nhng hnh ng nu c th. Chng c l do t b

nhng c m ca bn ch v khng c i x ng

mc.

Trn th gian ny rt kh ni rng tnh bn s lun vnh

cu hay k th l truyn kip. C li cho nhau nhng

ri c lc cng phi va chm tr thnh c hi cho nhau, tt

nhin s ny sinh xung t v li ch, lc y bn b cng c

th tr thnh k th. Cn nhng "k i u" nu nh kt

hp c vi nhau v mt li ch vn c th tr thnh cng

s, thnh bn b. l thc t!

Hiu c iu ny, bn nn th suy ngh trc khi ph

bnh ngi no : l do "con ngi" ca anh ta i lp

bn, hay do chc v, nhim v hm nay ca anh ta khin

anh ta buc phi i nghch vi bn?

V th ng qu nhy cm vi nhng suy ngh ca ngi

khc v mnh. Cng khng nn l ra mt v bc tc, hoc

s th ght mang tnh cht c nhn khi cho rng ngi khc

ang lm tn hi mnh. Cng ng mt thi gian i ghen

tc, hoc dm pha nhng ng nghip thnh cng hn bn.

Trn th gian ny, lp trng ca mt ngi c th thay i

bt c lc no. V vy, l ngi chn chn, bn cn bit l:

Khi xem xt lp trng ca ngi khc, chng ta khng th

b qua "con ngi tht" ca h. Tuyt i khng lp

trng ph nhn con ngi tht hay bn cht vn c ca

h. V rt c th ngy no , bn cng s ng trn lp

trng ca i phng, k th bng chc thnh bn b v

ngc li.