RealFulfilling
UnconditionalPassionateIntimateSecure
Purposed
1. The love of self.2. The love of
money.3. The love of the
world.
Three Things That God
says Husbands are
Desperate for:
1.Companionship2.HELP
(a helper)3. RESPECT
“Wives in Crisis”
Three Things That
God says Wives are Desperate
for:
1. Love
• Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him;
male and female
created He them.
• 1 Peter 5:8 Be sober, be vigilant;
because your adversary the
devil, as a roaring lion, walketh
about, seeking whom he may
devour
Three Things That
God says Wives are Desperate
for:
1. Love
How do we love her?
He loved us when we didn’t DESERVE it
• Romans 5:8 But God commendeth his love
toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners,
Christ died for us. • Romans 5:10 For if, when
we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life.
He loved us when we didn’t RETURN it
•1 John 4:19 We love
him, because He
first loved us.
He loved us when it COST Him something to do so.
• Matthew 13:44 Again, the kingdom of
heaven is like unto treasure hid in a
field; the which when a man hath found, he
hideth, and for joy thereof goeth and
selleth all that he hath, and buyeth that
field.
He loved us when we didn’t DESERVE it
He loved us when we didn’t RETURN it
He loved us when it COST Him something to do so.
Three Things That
God says Wives are Desperate
for:
1. Love
Three Things That
God says Wives are Desperate
for:
1. Love2. Security
How do we SECURE her?
• 1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with
them (the wives)
according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel,
and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be
not hindered.
• 1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them (the wives) according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the
weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not
hindered.
• 1 Kings 8:13 I have surely built thee an house to dwell in, a settled place for thee
to abide in for ever.
How do we SETTLE her?
Christ BUILDS SECURITY in His Bride through the
assurance of His NEVER-ENDING LOVE.
Christ BUILDS SECURITY in His Bride through the
assurance of His EVER-CONTINUING FAITHFULNESS.
• 1 Thessalonians 5:24 - Faithful is He that calleth you, who also will do it.
• 2 Thessalonians 3:3 - But the Lord is faithful, who
shall stablish you, and keep you from evil.
• 2 Timothy 2:13 - If we believe not, yet He
abideth faithful: He cannot deny himself.
Never Ending LoveEver Continuing Faithfulness
Is the world seeing that watching YOU and YOUR
BRIDE?
Christ BUILDS SECURITY in His Bride through the
assurance of His ALWAYS-LISTENING EAR.
• 1 John 5:14 And this is the
confidence that we have in Him,
that, if we ask any thing
according to his will, He heareth
us
• Ephesians 3:11-12 According to the
eternal purpose which He purposed in Christ
Jesus our Lord: In whom we have boldness and access with
confidence by the faith of Him.
• Psalms 34:17(a)-
The righteous cry, and the
LORD heareth, …”
Christ BUILDS SECURITY in His Bride through the
assurance of His OVER-ARCHING GOOD INTENTIONS.
• Romans 8:28-29 And we know that all things
work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called
according to his purpose. For whom he did
foreknow, he also did predestinate to be
conformed to the image of his Son, that he might
be the firstborn among many brethren.
• Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward
you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an
expected end.
Christ BUILDS SECURITY in His Bride through the
assurance of His NON-THREATING REACTIONS.
• Hebrews 12:5-6 And ye have forgotten the exhortation which
speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art
rebuked of him: For whom the Lord loveth
He chasteneth, …”
Christ BUILDS SECURITY in His Bride through the
assurance of His NON-FORSAKING PRESENCE.
• Hebrews 13:5-6 Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be
content with such things as ye have: for He hath said, I will never leave
thee, nor forsake thee. So that we may boldly
say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man
shall do unto me.
• Deuteronomy 31:6 Be strong and of a
good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of
them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor
forsake thee.
Christ BUILDS SECURITY in His Bride through the
assurance of His HEART-FELT COMPASSION and HELP.
• Hebrews 4:14-15 Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession. For we have
not an high priest which cannot be touched with the
feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points
tempted like as we are, yet without sin.
• Hebrews 4:14-15 Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast
our profession. For we have not an high priest which cannot be
touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points
tempted like as we are, yet without sin.
• Hebrews 4:16 Let us therefore come boldly unto
the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to
help in time of need.
Never Ending LoveEver Continuing
FaithfulnessAlways Listening
EarOver-Arching Good
IntentionsNon- Threatening
ReactionsNon-Forsaking
PresenceHeart-Felt
Compassion and Help
Is the world seeing that
watching YOU and YOUR
BRIDE?
Three Things That
God says Wives are Desperate
for:
1. Love2. Security3. Honour
How do we HONOUR her?
Your wife needs to know SHE holds the PLACE of
PROMINENCE in your life.
Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you (speaking to husbands) in particular so
love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Your wife needs to know SHE holds the PLACE of
PROMINENCE in your life.
Your wife needs to know SHE holds the PLACE of
PREEMINENCE in your life.
Your wife needs to know SHE holds the PLACE of
PRINCESS in your life.
• 1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them (the wives) according to
knowledge, giving
honour (teemay)(time) unto the wife, as unto the
weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not
hindered.
• 1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them (the wives) according to
knowledge, giving honour (teemay)(time) unto the wife, as unto the weaker
vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
• 33 places…honour• 8 places…PRICE
• 1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them (the wives) according to
knowledge, giving honour (teemay)(time) unto the
wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of
the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
• 33 places…honour• 8 places…PRICE• Acts 7:16… SUM
• 1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them (the
wives) according to knowledge, giving honour
(teemay)(time) unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as
being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not
hindered. • 1 Peter 2:7 Unto you therefore
which believe He is precious (teemay): but unto them which be disobedient, the stone which
the builders disallowed, the same is made the head of the corner
Does the world see you HONOUR HER as YOU WOULD ME via her PROMINENCE, PRE-
EMINENCE and her being PRECIOUS to you?
RealFulfilling
UnconditionalPassionateIntimateSecure
Purposed
He loved us when we didn’t DESERVE it
He loved us when we didn’t RETURN it
He loved us when it COST Him something to do so.
Never Ending LoveEver Continuing
FaithfulnessAlways Listening
EarOver-Arching Good
IntentionsNon- Threatening
ReactionsNon-Forsaking
PresenceHeart-Felt
Compassion and Help
Is the world seeing that
watching YOU and YOUR
BRIDE?
Does the world see you HONOUR HER as YOU WOULD ME via her PROMINENCE, PRE-
EMINENCE and her being PRECIOUS to you?
Three Things That
God says Wives are Desperate
for:
1. Love2. Security3. Honour
•Where is our home?
•Where is our home heading?