An Effective Counselor and Counselling Process

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For effective person

PERSONAL CHARACTERISTIS OF

EFFECTIVE PERSON…

PERSONAL CHARACTERISTIS OF

EFFECTIVE PERSON…


TECHNIQUE AND DIFFERENT …


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Effective person/counselor ‡ì KvQ †_‡K cÖZ¨vkv ev `vex ...÷z‡W›U/ K¬v‡q›U‡ì mv‡_ wbivg‡qii m¤úK© ¯’vc‡b Zviv GKRb cÖK…Z/LvuwU gvbexq e¨vw³ n‡eb...)

- Through our own genuineness and aliveness that we can significantly touch our Student/client.

- (Avgiv Avgv‡ì mZZv Ges mRxeZv/ cÖvYešÍZvi gva¨‡g ÷z‡W›U/ K¬v‡q›U‡ì ü`q ¯úk© Ki‡Z cvi‡ev )

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1.Effective person/counselor have an identity

they know who they are… and what is essential.

(mdj e¨w³i/KvDbwÝji Gi _vK‡e GKUv wbR¯^ cwiwPwZ)

2. Effective person/counselor respects and appreciate themselves and others :

( mdj e¨w³/KvDbwÝji wb‡R‡K Ges Ab¨‡ì m¤§vb K‡i, cÖksmv/mg_©b †`q ) Zviv wb‡R‡ì †hvM¨Zv I kw³i evB‡i- Ab¨‡ì KvQ †_‡K mvnvh¨ I fvjevmv

w`‡Z - wb‡Z Rvv‡b)

1.Effective person/counselor have an identity

they know who they are… and what is essential.

(mdj e¨w³i/KvDbwÝji Gi _vK‡e GKUv wbR¯^ cwiwPwZ)

2. Effective person/counselor respects and appreciate themselves and others :

( mdj e¨w³/KvDbwÝji wb‡R‡K Ges Ab¨‡ì m¤§vb K‡i, cÖksmv/mg_©b †`q ) Zviv wb‡R‡ì †hvM¨Zv I kw³i evB‡i- Ab¨‡ì KvQ †_‡K mvnvh¨ I fvjevmv

w`‡Z - wb‡Z Rvv‡b)

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PERSONAL CHARACTERISTIS OF…PERSONAL CHARACTERISTIS OF…3. Effective counselor/ person are open to change: When client are not satisfied with the way they are… counselor make decisions about how they would like to change., ,

- (÷z‡W›U/ K¬v‡q›U‡ì mv‡_ c_Pjvq... wKfv‡e cwieZ©Y Avb‡Z n‡e, †m m¤^‡Ü Zviv m‡PZb I D`vi, GgbwK we‡klfv‡e hLb Zviv wbR Ae¯’v‡b AmyLx...|

4. Effective counselor make choices that are life oriented:

- mdj/djcÖ` e¨w³/KvDwÝji K¬v‡q›U‡ì hv Rxeb-Dc‡hvMx ev Rxeb †Kw›`ªK Zv †e‡Q ‡bq|

3. Effective counselor/ person are open to change: When client are not satisfied with the way they are… counselor make decisions about how they would like to change., ,

- (÷z‡W›U/ K¬v‡q›U‡ì mv‡_ c_Pjvq... wKfv‡e cwieZ©Y Avb‡Z n‡e, †m m¤^‡Ü Zviv m‡PZb I D`vi, GgbwK we‡klfv‡e hLb Zviv wbR Ae¯’v‡b AmyLx...|

4. Effective counselor make choices that are life oriented:

- mdj/djcÖ` e¨w³/KvDwÝji K¬v‡q›U‡ì hv Rxeb-Dc‡hvMx ev Rxeb †Kw›`ªK Zv †e‡Q ‡bq|

5. Effective person/counselors are authentic, sincere an honest:

- Zviv cÖK…Z/LvuwU, mnR-mij Ges mr/mZëv`x ; †Kvb welq jyKv‡Z ev cÖwZ‡iva/evuavi m„wó Ki‡Z †Póv K‡i bv|

6. Effective person/counselor have a sense of humor:

- mdj KvDbwÝji‡ì Av‡Q iwmKZv Kivi g‡Zv Ávb| Zviv Rxe‡bi NUbvmg~n bZzb `„wófw½‡Z †`L‡Z cv‡i| Zviv †h †Kvb KwVb welq Ges we‡klfv‡e wb‡Ri Ag‡Zi/B”Qvi weiæ× welqI mnRfv‡e wb‡Z ‡Pó K‡i|


7. Effective person/counselor make mistakes and are willing to admit them: Zviv fzj Ki‡Z cv‡ib Z‡e Zv ‡¯^”Qvq ¯^xKvi K‡i |

8. Effective person/counsrlor generally live in the present: Zviv AZxZ evievi ¯§iY K‡i †`q bv, Avevi fwel¨r wel‡qI AwZwbf©ikxj bq; Zviv AwfÁZv Ki‡Z Ges Ab¨‡ì mv‡_ eZ©gvb wb‡q _vK‡Z †Póv K‡i|



9. Effective person/counselor appreciate the influence of culture:

- Zviv e¨w³ mZš¿Zv, †RÛvi, †kÖYx‡f` m¤^‡Ü LyeB m‡PZb Ges ms‡e`bkxj| ‡h †Kvb ms¯‹…wZi cÖwZ Zviv kÖ×vkxj...

10. Effective person/counselors possess (own) effective interpersonal skills: Zv‡ì Av‡Q Ab¨‡ì mv‡_ cvi¯úwiK e¨w³MZ m¤úK© ¯’vc‡b `ÿZv| A‡bï Rxeb-Mfx‡i XzKvi g‡Zv ‡KŠkjI Zviv AR©b K‡i †bq|

9. Effective person/counselor appreciate the influence of culture:

- Zviv e¨w³ mZš¿Zv, †RÛvi, †kÖYx‡f` m¤^‡Ü LyeB m‡PZb Ges ms‡e`bkxj| ‡h †Kvb ms¯‹…wZi cÖwZ Zviv kÖ×vkxj...

10. Effective person/counselors possess (own) effective interpersonal skills: Zv‡ì Av‡Q Ab¨‡ì mv‡_ cvi¯úwiK e¨w³MZ m¤úK© ¯’vc‡b `ÿZv| A‡bï Rxeb-Mfx‡i XzKvi g‡Zv ‡KŠkjI Zviv AR©b K‡i †bq|


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11. Effective person/counselor have a sincere interest in the welfare of others: A‡bï Ges Zvui KvD‡Ýwj‡ì kyf-Kvgbv Kivi ‡ÿ‡Î _v‡K AKcU AvMÖn| GB ì`‡eva M‡o D‡V cvi¯úwiK m¤§vvb, hZœ, wek¦vm Ges Ab¨‡K g~j¨/ghv©`v †`qvi gva¨‡g| - this concern is based on respect, care, trust and real valuing of others.


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COUNSEELING PROCESS…

ACCEPTENCE: MÖnYxq g‡bvfve RESTATEMENT: (use the same

word)cybiæw³ CLARIFICATION: ¯úó aviYv †`qvSUMMARY : mvi-ms‡ÿc ejv

GENERAL LEAD: mvaviY cwiPvjbv †`qvREASURENCE: wbðqZv ‡`qv

INTEARPRETATION: ¯úófv‡e fvj-g›` w`KwU‡Z Av‡jvKcvZ


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Acceptance is non-judgmental openness to whatever is said by the counselee. ‡Kvb wePvi bv K‡i D`vi ev †Lvjv g‡bvfv‡e KvDwÝjx hv-B e‡j Zv MÖnY |

KvDwÝj‡ii Dl I Avš‘wiK MÖnY, Zvi mge¨_x nIqv , Lye kxNªB Zv‡K Abyfe Ki‡Z mvnvh¨ Ki‡e †h †m Zvi Kv‡Q MªnYxq GKRb,,,

Use this… “ I am with you”I accept that, … nothing u say here is irrelevant.I regard your thoughts with respects….

ACCEPTENCE: MÖnYxq g‡bvfve

(KvDwÝwj hv e‡j wVK Zv-B / GKB kã cbivq ejv )| cybiæw³ Zv‡K... †m †h wel‡q K_v e‡j‡Q, †m m¤^‡Ü mwVK aviYv w`‡e )|

RESTATEMENT: (use the same word)cybiæw³


KvDwÝwj GB gvÎ hv e‡j‡Q ‡m m¤^‡Ü cwi®‹vi aviYv †`qv ...

ZLb KvDwÝwj eyS‡Z cvi‡e †h , Zvi g‡b hv wQj.... †m †Kej ZvB cÖKvk K‡i‡Q| ( Av‡eM, Abyf‚wZ, ivM, †ÿvf, fq, `ywðšÍv..)

Used as REFLECTION- (cÖwZdjb) this response can serve as a mirror... KvDwÝwji Dw³ cybivq ejv, Zvi gZ K‡i Abyfe Kiv,,,,

CLARIFICATION:


KvDwÝwj ‡h wel‡q mnfvwMZv K‡i‡Q Zvi mviK_v ev g~j welq cybivq ejv, Ges Zvi Abyf‚wZi Awfe¨w³ AvZ¯’ Kiv|

KvDwÝwj‡K Zvi welq wKfv‡e ej‡e ev Dc¯’vcb Ki‡e ‡m c_/Dcvq †e‡Q wb‡Z mvnvh¨ K‡ib, AbygwZ †`b|

But … the counsellor who is taking the responsibility for the progress (AMÖMwZ) of the interview.

SUMMARY

GENERAL LEAD


REASSURANCE: ( wbðqZv, Avkv, mvnm Ges AvZœ- wek¦vm‡eva †`qv ... to give hope, courage, self-confidence. .. Yes, I am agree with u.

hLb Avgiv gy‡L e‡j ev bv e‡j Avgv‡ì †gŠb m¤§wZ‡Z wbðqZv ‡`B; ZLb Avgiv Zv‡ì wPšÍv-aviYv Av_ev Zv‡ì Abyf‚wZ‡K kw³kvjx / eje„w× Kwi|

INTERPRETATION: KvDwÝwj hv e‡j †m Dw³i cieZx© djvdj/ cwiw¯’wZ †Kgb n‡Z cv‡i †m m¤^‡Ü fvj-g›` w`K Av‡jvKcvZ Kiv...


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INTERVIEW

ING

TECHNIQUES

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A.Physical Arrangements :

The setting- a good setting is needed for privacy and protection from interruptions (evav/cÖwZeÜKZv).

Note-taking and recording.


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positive, comfortable relationship between the clinician and clients.

involves comfortable atmosphere and natural understanding to the purpose of the interview.


connectionempathy

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it is very important to use language that the patient can understand, avoid psychological jargon(meaningless word)…

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Open-ended – …would you tell me about your experiences in …accident?

Facilitative –

Clarifying –

Confronting- remove conflicting

statements. Direct-

10 Qualities of an effective counselor

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Confidentiality: It is of upmost importance when you are a counselor. You must be able to maintain confidentiality so the client can trust you with their most intimate concerns.

EncouragingThe ability to encourage is important for a counselor. Many clients are struggling to find hope in their situation.

Self-Aware: A counselor who is aware of their own fears, insecurities, and weaknesses will be effective in the therapeutic relationship.

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AuthenticityAuthenticity is vital when working with clients. Clients will know if you are being fake or not showing genuine concern.

Good Listener: Counselors spend a significant amount of time listening to their clients. You will do more listening than talking.

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Patience: As a counselor you need to have patience with your clients as they process the discussion. It may take them time to accept certain things and to move towards positive changes.

Compassionate : It is very important that your clients feel your compassion for their problems and that they sense you truly care about them.

Nonjudgmental: Counselors hear all kinds of private information and encounter all types of people.

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Research-Oriented: Being a counselor involves a significant amount of time spent researching. You will need to stay current on the research in order to help your clients.

Empathetic : Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. You need to be able to put yourself in the shoes of your client and understand the situation from their point of view.

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