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Ngy 17 thng 7 nm 1988, bo Tn Dn bui chiu ng mt bi bo ca Chu B Xun ni v chuyn tm hiu hn nhn, cui bi c on vit: hm qua c ngi a n bt t sinh thn ca Ng Tiu Th, t trn bp nh ti 3 ngy. Trong 3 ngy , bt khng v mt chic, ngi khng ai b ng. Nghe ni l d bo vn may m Ng Tiu Th mang n cho gia nh ny. y, tuy tc gi khng ni tip bt t ca hai bn nam n hp hay khng hp, nhng cch lm coi trng bt t ca pha n trc khi kt hn li l mt ni dung ly v hp hn trong dn gian nc ta. Thi xa hp hn gi l hp h, c ngha l hp hai h li l hn nhn. Thi xa kt hn ly v, hai bn phn ln khng c, c hi c nhn mt nhau, cng khng ni n c tm hiu phm cht o c, thi h tt xu ca i bn na. Cho nn trong qu trnh hp hn, ngoi mt khu m bi bo ca Chu B Xun cp ti, phn ln l pha Nam trc tin phi mi ngi xem bt t ca pha n c vng phu ch t khng hay l thng phu khc t? Nu qu ng l vng phu ch T th pha Nam sng nh m c trong bng, nu l thng phu khc t th pha nam s rt lui ngay, i tm m khc. Trong x hi phong kin hoc x hi c, kt hn may hay khng may hon ton da vo vn kh, tm l ny ca x hi cng d hiu thi. Theo cch lm ny th qu l hoang ng chng ni lm g, ly mt v d, by gi nam n tm hiu nhau, pha nh gi gi n mt bt t nh th ny. Nm/Thng/Ngy/Gi: inh Su Nhm Dn inh Du K DuTrong mnh ngy Th inh Ho l bn mnh ca c gi, dng can thng khc ta Nhm Thu l Ho phu tinh m Gip Mc trong chi thng Dn l n ca bn mnh inh Ho, li l ct thn, thc thn ca Nhm Thu phu tinh, li thm con trai k c cng gi, mt l inh Ho sinh ra K Th l con, hai l phu tinh Nhm Thu c k Th l quan, t tinh k Th c Gip Mc trong Dn l quan, bn l inh Ho khc chi gi Du l ti. Tng hp s phn tch ni trn, hn l mt mnh vinh phu ch t, cho nn bn nam gii sng qu, lun ming xin tip nhn? Nu nh pha nh gi a n mt bt t nh th nyNm Gip Thn Thng Qu DuNgy Bnh T Gi Tn MoTrong ly can ngy Bnh Ho lm bn mnh, c can thng Qu Thu khc ta l phu, li c a chi Thn hi Thu lm m phu, li thm can chi ngy gi Bnh Tn tng hp, T Mo tng hnh, a chi hnh m thin can hp, sch on mnh cho l mnh hoang dm lang bt, tu sc hn m. Hn na Bnh Ho khc Tn Kim trong Du ti vng, m ti ny li di to ca ph tinh, cho nn c th bn gian c ti. Gp phi n mnh ny, vi pha nam hp hn m ni th kh lng tip nhn. trong x hi phong kin nc ta.Vn d l mt x hi ly nam gii lm trung tm nn biu hin phng din hp hn, phn ln l do bn nam la chn bn n. V th c mt bi ca c:Chn v phi bnh tnhPhu tinh phi kho mnhNh c to Chnh tiT tr mang hu tQu nhn mt ngi chnhKim thu nu tng phngNi k anh ngheCan ngy cn nhu thunPh qu t nhin laiTng mnh li tng thHai ba c n choTh c dung nhan pT qu mt ngi stTi quan nu tng khDn Thn T Hi tonT Ng v Mo DuThn Tut kim Su MiC Thn s thy TutThn Tut nu cng thyC st khng s hpHp thn nu c nhiuDng nhn mang thng quanTon bn li l nThin can mt ch lina chi mt ch liny ca quyt n mnhc quyn li ph quxung khai ai cng giuC du bng lun nghHn l theo ngi io v hn i kC tut s thy ThnPhn nhiu dm ph nhnKhng st li s hpKhng k n cng cm caPhc tp vic a oanHn l s tn conC ph ho lin minHai bn thnh hn sNgn vng ch coi thng.

Tuy ni nh vy, nhng ngc li, pha n chn chng th vic nghin cu phn tch bt t ca pha nam a n trc nay cng khng tu tin. V rng g g theo g, g ch theo ch, n l chuyn i s lin quan n hnh phc sut i ca nh gi, lm th no c th tu tin c y? Trong nhiu trng hp, yu cu ca nh gi i vi bt t ca nhtrai l ng hnh trung ho, khng thin khng da, cho rng mt ngi n ng nh vy khng ch sut i cm no o m, tnh cch li trung ho, th mnh ko di. Thi xa xng con gi ly chng, t trc n sau ch cn nhc nh trai c vinh hoa ph qu hay khng, m khng suy xt n tnh tnh tt xu ca nam gii y v h sng c th khng, th th nhng ngy tip theo s nh th no?Cho nn, t cch xem v s lo lng v vn gi th ni trn, sch on mnh tng qut yu lnh hp hn nam n nh sau: nam i chn v, bt t qu l thy c nh tinh chng con, nu chng hng con ch th phc hn p: n chn chng, bt t qu l c kh trung ho, nu khng thin khng da, tui th hn di.Nhng bt t nam n trong th gian ny thin bin vn ho, s mc rt nhiu, lm g c nhiu mnh phu vinh t qu v bt t trung ho? V vy, bt t gia nam n nu lch, khi hp hn cn nn lch tm ngay, chuyn yu lm mnh th s c tt. V d can ngy bn thn nam mnh l Mc m Gip t Mc ca t kin, kip ti trong bt t, nhng pha n a bt t bn thn n ch l Mu K Th, theo l m ni, Mc khc Th, chng ch c v, theo lun l phong kin th l vic tri nh ri, nhng rt cc pha bn nam Mc th qu mnh, kh trnh khi gia ng khc th, cho nn lc ny cn xem thc thng canh Tn Kim ca pha n nh th no. Nu thc thng nng, do Kim c th ch Kim, cho nn hai bn ng vng, c th hp hn. Nu pha n thng thc khng , ch cn Mu K Th nhiu, c th sinh Kim, khng nh hng n i cc, c th hp hn. Ch lo bn thn suy nhc m khng c Thc thn Canh Kim chng c li, th th i bn ch ni li tm bit, i tm i tng khc vy. Cng l l y, ni ngc li nu thc thng Canh Tn Kim trong n mnh qu nhiu, th th lc tm chng tt nht l Mc ca T kin, Kip Ti i phng nhiu mi c th chng c li c, v rng Mc nhiu Kim khuyt, pha n s ph sc chm cht. Nghe ni, nu v chng ly nhau theo nguyn tc ny, tuy bt t bn thn mi ngi thin thng thin suy, mi ngi b cho nhau m gi c ng thi cn bng, cho nn vn l bn duyn cm st, con ci huQuy np li nguyn tc hp hn ly tha b thiu s l: nam mnh Mc thnh th nn ly Kim, c cng Kim ca n b cho th l rt p, c Th sinh Kim cng tt, c Ha l th 2, c Thu Mc th khng ly c, nu n mnh cng Kim h Ho, c Ho mnh ca nam tr gip th v cng p, c Mc sinh Ho cng p, c Thu l th 2, c Kim Th th ly u tin. Cc ng hnh khc thin thnh thin suy cng theo th m tnh.Ngoi ra trong hp hn, cn c cc loi ct tu ph, lc hi, bi i l nhng hung st cn bit trnh v k. Nhng bin php phn nh nhng hung st ny l cn c a chi nm sinh, kt hp vi thng sinh nng lch on nh. V d ngi sinh nm a chi T sinh vo thng Ng (thng 5), nu l n mnh th b coi l phm vo thn st ti gi. Khi hp hn nu nh trai nhn thy n mnh ny, th vi rt lui tht xa, v cch ni hung st khng c cn c ny, Trn T Am trong mnh l c ngn quyn 4 thng thng bc b: Sch n ti hp hn ni khng c l l. Hn nhn ca ngi ta do tin nh. Chn hn mnh chng qua l do lng yu con ca b m, nam chn n, bt t qu thy c nh tinh phu t, n chn nam, bt t qu c o trung ho sao cn lp ra cc thuyt la di nh ct tu ph, thit to tru, lc hi, i bi, lang tch, phi thin, bt bi, c h v.v , ly 12 chi ca nm sinh, ly mt ch thng sinh l phm, cn c l l g? ng ni tip, tin ti thoi ti, vng mn th go, v gp nguy chng gp ch, t m tuyt ly v chng ch ly Kim, Mc, Thu, Ho, Th np m vo thng sinh l phm, chng thoi ti tin ti, thuc vo vn mnh ca mnh, sao c chuyn da vo ngi khc m dn n tai ho c? Tip , cun sch cn bc b thng cnh: sch hp mnh ly s mnh cung nm ca nam n, phi hp vi thin y, phc c l thng hn, du hn, quy hn l trung hn, ng qu, tuyt mnh l h hn, nu nh c l th ngi cu hn u chn thng hn, trung hn ly m b h hn i, thin h khng c ai on n b chng na, trn ni n bt bi, gi l bt bi nh ln d ch sa 3 thng ma xun, li ly ngi Hi, Mi, Tut, 3 thng sinh lm bt bi, chng k ngy gi, chng k cha con, thy l di tr. Cn nh n mnh ti k o hoa st, nh Dn, Ng, Tut t Mo ra nu Dn, Ng, Tut, thuc Ho, s tm Mo, Ho Mo ng bng, s b trch l lo th, nh th chng c cng u m bc b. Sch vit n y, ly mt v d v n mnh v ni; Ta thy c hai b con u ton, b gi ph qu. V lc tr mang cc st bt bi, b m ci to bt t cho b hp vi ngi, cho n khi cht mi ni cho chng con bit mnh thc ghi vo m ch. Khi xem c mnh tht, vn l chng con sng p, c trung ho, ngi i ni mang bt bi nhiu hung, no c bit bt t ca b cc p.Ngun: Quang Tu

C TRNG CA MNH N MYKhng ai l khng s ngho kh, cng khng ai mun lm k n my. V vy, lun v T Bnh hc, khng th khng lun ti mnh n my, hy xem mt Bt t n my di y:

Mnh ny khc tit trng trng, Th dy m khng c Mc, xut can ch Mu, a chi Dn Mc b Thn xung, nhp vn nm 10 tui, 40 tui nhp vn Hi c chuyn bin tt, mnh giao ti nm 60 tui, cht u ng khi thi tit gi lnh, cht v Kim. Bnh Ha gp Th, con ngi lc no cng m h, gp Mc s tt.Xem tip mt v d na, mnh to di y Mo Tut hp Bnh khng ha, inh Ha thu can nm, khc Kim l xu, Mu Tut Th dy, li c Ha tr, chn vi Kim cng l xu, gp i vn inh Mi vo nm 25 tui, b cht dc ng do b cm.

Hai v d trn y ch ra mt nguyn l trong Bt t, l phi cn bng, qu cng hoc qu nhc s l mt m ca vn suy. V d trc l Bnh Ha gp Th qu nhiu, v d sau l Tn Kim gp Th qu nhiu, c hai u cn Thy sinh Mc cu. Nu hnh vn Hi s c cu, nhng Hi li v cng phin phc. Gp phi Dn, Mo, Mi s u bin cht, kh lng b cu thun li c.Ngun: L C Minh

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