SecureSelf-reliant

Low dependence on othersComfortable with intimacy

PreoccupiedAnxious about relationshipDependent on partner

FearfulAfraid of attachmentAvoids intimacySocially avoidant

DismissiveDenial of attachment

Pretends to be independent

Positivemodel of

self

Negativemodel of

self

Positive model of other

Negative model of other

Regardof self and

otherThis is the

“ideal”quadrant