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Soft skill: Talking with romance in mind. "HONESTY is the best thing you can give someone. Truth, friendship and love depend on it." ---Elvis Presley---
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TALKING WITH ROMANCE IN MIND
__“Romance” Group__Ho Le Quy
Do Thi Them NgocNguyen Huyen Trang
INTRODUCTION
“Remember my
unalterable maxim,
where we love, we
have always
something to say” –
Lady Mary Wortley Montagu –
CONTENT Do’s
Don’ts
Special situations
Tactics in conversations
Talk of love in real life
DO’S
• Begin slowly• Teeter-totter process• Self-revelation• Not to reveal all• Names!• Chance to court• Appreciation• Generic subjects vs.
politics or spiritual beliefs• Degree of interest in You
DON’TS
• Mention about dating history• Avoid too-broad and largely
unproductive• Use mobile phone• Be others, not yourself !• Use direct questions• A bit of secrets• Save words on saying “I love U”
SPECIAL SITUATIONS
• Using letter, email, phone, sms, chat…
• Dating with the colleague check the rules pls!
• Facing with the unwelcome conservation (sexual messages, regions,…)
• ….
TOPIC OF CONVERSATIO
N
Anecdotes, opinions, observation Animals/pet Books/music/movies Sports Arts Work life
Bragging, one-upping, putting down others Money Religion Divorce
Retelling movies and TV shows you’ve seen The other’s dating story Criticisms and complaints
CONSI-DER
AVOID
CONVERSATION STARTERS
Striking up an acquaintance
2nd & 3rd dates
Later on… Closing lines
Other…
SILENT THINGS CAN BE
WORTH 1000 WORDS...
TALK OF
IN REAL LIFE…
IMPORTANT PRINCIPLES IN PRACTICE
1. Understand your partner
2. Be Smart & Humorous
3. Praise
4. Romantic messages
5. Honesty
Important principles1. Understand your
partner
2. Be Smart & Humorous
3. Praise
4. Avoid sensitive questions
5. Honest
• Psychology
• Hobby
• What he/she wants
• Updated news
• ........
The more you know the more opportunistic you are
Important principles
1. Understand your partner
2. Be Smart & Humorous
3. Praise
4. Avoid sensitive questions
5. Honest
• Why you call me ???
1. Because, i call you each day at this time
2. If i don’t call you, you will be angry.
3. My card still have enough money
4. I want to check my phone
What you will say if…
• Em là mối tình thứ mấy của anh? Không phải là đầu tiên, chưa chắc là cuối cùng, và dĩ nhiên không phải là “duy nhất”. Nhưng là mãi mãi.
• Tại sao anh yêu em? Nếu biết tại sao thì anh đã biết cách ngừng yêu em rồi
• Em sẽ nhận lời yêu anh nếu anh dám nhảy xuống hồ này vì em Không. Anh đâu có muốn em yêu một thằng ngu
• Không biết sau này anh hay em chết trước nhỉ? Hy vọng là em. Anh không muốn em phải chịu đựng cảm giác đau khổ khi phải sống một mình trên đời này.
• Trước đây anh có từng nghĩ sẽ yêu một người như em không?Không. Anh thậm chí không dám nghĩ đến điều cao xa như thế
• Anh ghét đi shopping với em lắm đúng không? Ừ, rất ghét. Cùng một quãng thời gian đó, nếu ta vào quán café, anh sẽ nói được một ngàn lần câu “anh yêu em”.
• Khi nói “anh yêu em”, anh có lừa dối em không Có. Thật ra là “anh yêu em rất nhiều”
Important principles
1.Understand your partner
2.Be Smart & Humorous
3.Praise
4.Romantic messages
5.Honesty
• Creative way
• Specific and clear
• Find something to praise
1. Understand your partner
2. Be Smart & Humorous
3. Praise
4. Romantic messages
5. Honest
•Words alone will never be able to express the depth of my love for you.•In case you didn't know, I'll be loving you always and forever!!!•Just when I thought it couldn't get better, you prove me wrong! I love you!•Falling in love with you was the easiest thing I've done in my life.•Hand in hand and heart to heart my love for you shall never part.•Even though we are apart, my love you will never part.I'll love the sun for days, the moon for nights, and YOU for forever.Loving you makes my heart explode with happiness.
HONESTY is the best thing
you can give someone.
Truth, friendship and
love depend on it.
---Elvis Pressley---
How to become better…• Practice day by day • Read and read• Watch romantic movies• Study from experience people
And
Remember that...
CONCLUSION
HONESTY is the best thing
you can give someone.
Truth, friendship and
love depend on it.
---Elvis Presley---
Thank You For
Joining Us !!!