Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

Unit 8. Finding a Spouse

I have always considered marriage as the most in-teresting event of one's life, the foundation of happiness or misery.

GEORGE WASHINGTON


b background( 배경 , 성장환경 )

past experience, including family life and education

I spouse( 배우자 ) a husband or wife

hcharacteristics( 타인들과 구분되는 특징 )

special features or quali-ties that make each per-son or thing different from others

gromantic( 낭만적인 , 열렬한 )

related to strong feelings of love between a man and a woman

j produce( 생산하다 ) to make or create


f leadership( 주도권 , 지도력 )

the ability to direct other people

a pregnant( 임신한 )

having a baby that has not been born yet growing in your body

e fertility( 수정능력 , 비옥 ) the ability to have children

c raise( 기르다 )

to take care of and edu-cate

d polygamy( 일부다처 )

the custom of having more than one wife at a time

Unit 8. Finding a SpouseIntroduction Different cultural background -> different

forms of marriageWho Decide? by parents :Traditional Chinese culture

of marriage by the young : The Hopi(kiva) Bavarian people

(windowingDifferent Style of Marriage Oneida Community : group marriage The early Mormons : PolygamyConclusion Finding a spouse = important concerns in

our lives

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① spouse : 배우자② join together : 합치다 (unite)③ right and wrong : 옳고 그름④ a match maker : 결혼 중매인

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All societies have their own form of marriage.

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① characteristic : 특징② no matter when or where = when-

ever or whereverno matter when or where they have lived : ‘ 그들이 언제 혹은 어디에 살았던지 간에’ 【설명】 [nomatter + 의문사 ] 는 [ 의문사 + ever] 로 대치될 수도 있으며 양보의 의미를 나타낸다 .

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In traditional Chinese cul-ture, marriage decisions were made by parents for their children.

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① be impressed that ~ : ~ 하다는 인상을 받다 ② make : ( 성장하여 ) ~ 이 되다 / He will

make an excellent scholar. 그는 훌륭한 학자가 될 것이다 . ③ as a consequence (of A) : (A 의 ) 결과로

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As part of our cultural background, beliefs about marriage can be as differ-ent as the cultures of the world.

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① Bavarian people of southern Ger-many : 남부 독일의 바이에른 사람들 ; ‘bar-barian’( 미개한 ) 과 혼동해서는 안됨

② leave A open : A 를 열린 상태로③ so that 주어 could 동사원형 : 주어가 ~할 수 있도록④ enter A : A 에 들어가다⑤ fertility : 수정능력 , 비옥⑥ requirement : 필요조건⑦ view : 관점 , 견해⑧ marriage practices : 결혼 풍습들


The Hopi culture is not the only one that allowed young people to visit each other at night.


① hold : ( 신념ㆍ생각 등을 ) 품다 / He holds the same view with me. 그는 나와 같은 견해를 가지고 있다

② started = established ③ group marriage : 집단혼 (2 명 이상으로 된 남자 1 조 ( 組 ) 와 다른 1 조의 여자들이 동시에 혼인 관계에 있는 혼인 형태 )


One view of marriage that surprises most of us today was held by John Noyes, a religious man who started the Oneida Community in the state of New York in 1831.

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① sect : 종파 ② polygamy : 일부다처 ; monogamy : 일부일처 ; bigamy : 중혼 ; exogamy : 족외혼 ; endogamy : 동족결혼 ;

polyandry : 일처다부 ③ the Mormon Church = the Church of

Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints : 예수 그리스도 후기 성도 교회④ ban : 금지하다


A more famous example of a different style of mar-riage is found among the early Mormons


① commit : 전념하다 ② finding a spouse with whom we can

commit to spending a lifetime : ‘우리가 더불어 일생을 보내는데 전념할 수 있는 배우자를 찾는 것’ ③ concern : 관심사


Marriage is a basic and important part of human life.

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1. A matchmaker helped by finding someone of the right age and back-ground.

2. A successful marriage was one that produced sons.

3. Thirteen 4. They stopped night visits if they

thought a boy might not be a good husband.

5. She would get pregnant.

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6. She wouldn’t be able to get married.

7. They believed unmarried women should not get pregnant.

8. It didn’t continue to exist because John Noyes had left the community.

9. In 1890, polygamy was officially banned in the Mormon church.

Unit 8. Finding a SpouseREADING TWO : What’s Wrong with

Tradition?

Unit 8. Finding a Spouse1~2 a business degree : 경영학 학위 business leadership : 경제적 주도권 the questions that people ask me : ‘사람들이 나에게 묻는 질문들’3a happy one = a happy marriage for the first time : 처음으로 arranged marriage : 중매결혼 as time passes : as time goes by( 시간이 지남에 따라 ), with the passages of time, in

the process of timeeverlasting : 영원한


F Paul Nguyen thinks dating romantically is the best way to find a marriage partner.

T Paul thinks a happy marriage includes deep friendship, love, and trust.

F His parents were in love with each other before the marriage.

F Paul wants a different life than his parents.

T Paul thinks his parents can help find him a good wife.

Unit 8. Finding a Spouse1. Parents choose the spouse because young people aren’t able to make a good decision by themselves.


Traditional Chinese, Vietnamese

2. Family background is important in choosing a spouse.




Traditional Chinese, Vietnamese3. Educational background is important in choosing a spouse.




Traditional Chinese, Vietnamese3. Educational background is important in choosing a spouse.



4. A girl must become pregnant to demon-strate her fertility before she can marry.



Old Bavarian

5. Marrying young is an important factor in choosing a spouse.



Old Bavarian


Traditional Hopi, Early Mormons6. The boy and girl had a relationship before they married.



Old Bavarian


Traditional Hopi, Early Mormons6. The boy and girl had a relationship before they married.

Traditional Hopi, Old Bavarian


7. The goal of marriage is to produce sons who will become leaders in the family.



Traditional Chinese

8. If the girl becomes pregnant, she can shoose the boy she likes best to marry.



Traditional Chinese


Traditional Hopi9. If the girl becomes pregnant, the boy will ask her to marry him.



Traditional Chinese


Traditional Hopi9. If the girl becomes pregnant, the boy will ask her to marry him.

Old Bavarian


10. Men and women practice group marriage in which they change partners frequently.



Oneida Community11. This group used to practice group polygamy, a custom in which the man can have more than one wife at a time.




Early Mormons12. If a woman can’t get pregnant, she prob-ably can’t marry.




Early Mormons12. If a woman can’t get pregnant, she prob-ably can’t marry.

Traditional Hopi, Old Bavarian, Early Mormons

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Arranged Mar-riage

( 중매 결혼 )

Traditional Chinese

Vietnamese

Fertility-Based Marriage

( 출산 기반 결혼 )

Traditional Hopi

Old BavarianPlural Marriage

( 복혼 )Polygamy,

polyandry, group marriage

Oneida Community(group marriage)Early Mormons(polygamy)

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W a love faithfully and lastingly : 충실히 또 영원히 사랑하다

C b surprise : 놀라게 하다 / romantic : 열렬한 , 낭만적인 , 로맨틱한

M c raise : 기르다 , 양육하다 (grow, bring up)

W d fertility : 출산력 , 생식능력C e broken heart : 상처입은 마음 , 상심 ( 비탄 )

syn. heartbreak


M f produce : 여기서는 ‘낳다’C g characteristics : 특징들 / looks : 외모

background : 배경 , 이전 경험W h leadership : 주도권 , 지도력

in a position of ~ : 주도권을 쥐고 있는M I pregnant : 임신한C j spouse : 배우자M k be proud of A : A 를 자랑스러워 하다


S make : produce

R romantic : attracted to

A pregnancy : infertility

C/E romance : love marriage

D enduring : everlasting

R marriage : partner


D hurt : brokenhearted

C/E fertility : pregnancy

S society : culture

A hard-working : lazy

R support : take care of

A bride : groom

Unit 8. Finding a Spouse1. Did you know? + Who likes her most?Did you know who likes her most?

2.Do you guess?+ Whom did she discuss?Whom do you guess she discussed?

3.Do you think?+Who is the man?Who do you think the man is?

4.Can you tell?+When did she buy it?Can you tell when she bought it?

Unit 8. Finding a Spouse5.When did she meet him?(Do you think)When do you think she met him?

6.Do you believe?+What did he say?What do you believe he said?

7. What can I do for you?(Do you imagine)What do you imagine I can do for you?

8.Why is the baby crying?(Please tell me)Please tell me why the baby is crying.


9.Where was it made?(Did you say)Did you say where it was made? orWhere did you say it was made?

10. I ask him. Is she from Canada?I ask him if(whether) she is from Canada.

11.Do you Know? Is it yours?Do you Know if(whether) it is yours?

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Unit 8. Finding a Spouse