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: Spiritual Evolution, Adaptation to Life, Wisdom of the Ego

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and within the limit of physical health maintains social utility and helps others

, . , .Second, he shows cheerful tolerance of the indignities of old age. He acknowledges and gracefully accepts his dependency needs.

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, .Third, she maintains hope in life, insists on sensible autonomy (to do for oneself what one is able), and cherishes initiative.

She remembers that all life is a journey and that development goes on for all of our lives.

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Fourth, he retains a sense of humor and a capacity for play. He willingly sacrifice surface happiness for basic joy. As Voltaire suggested, he cultivates his garden.

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Fifth, she is able to spend time in the past and to take sustenance from past accomplishment.

Yet she remains curious and continues to learn from the next genera- -ion. (sustenance=a mean of support, )

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Sixth,he tries to maintain contact and intimacy with old friends while heeding A. M. Lindberghs injunction that the seed of love must be eternally resown.

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