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Verdien jij jouw geld met je passie?

Peter De Kuster

The Hero’s Journey

Met Jouw Passie Jouw Geld VerdienenNederland - December 2014 | Nr. 5L

De Reis van de Heldin)RWRJUD¿H��/DXUD�GH�+DDQ

‘Onze heldinnen van Nederland!’ - Peter de Kuster -

Peter de Kuster

Oprichter van de Reis van de Heldin.

‘Reis mee in een wereldstad en ontmoet creatieve heldinnen die hun geld verdienen

met waar ze van houden. Zij zullen jou inspireren om je eigen legende te creëren.’

Erica Argelo $OLFH�9DÆ Sara Surachno Simone Massop

Anja Gijsbers Laura Willemsen Linda Greve

Minna Sangi Marja Kruik Lucie Klaassen Mirella Eickhof Jolien Slavenburg Ariënne Stolk

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Irma Buenk

Introductie Reis van de Heldin | Jouw Verhaal 6

Hoofdstuk 1 De Creatieve Heldin 14

Quiz Er is geen ‘goed’ antwoord! 22

Hoofdstuk 2 De Geweldige Karakteristieken 34

van Creatieve Heldinnen

Hoofdstuk 3 Gemotiveerd om een Creatieve 42

Heldin te zijn

Hoofdstuk 4 Jouw Reis van de Heldin 50

Hoofdstuk 5 Wat is Jouw Verhaal? 62

Hoofdstuk 6 Voor Liefde en Geld 72

Hoofdstuk 7 De Mythes van Creatieve Heldinnen 84

Hoofdstuk 8 Maak een Proefrit in Jouw Droombaan 96

Hoofdstuk 9 Het Leven is een ‘Pitch’! 108

Hoofdstuk 10 Ben Je Eigen Heldin 118

Hoofdstuk 11 Ontmoet Jouw Helden en Heldinnen 134

Epiloog De Kracht van Jouw Verhaal 144

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mij. Ik ben

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vraag te beantwoorden die mijn winst zou verdubbelen, dan zou ik

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Ik stel doelen op Nieuwsjaardag en in Februari ben ik ze vergeten. Doelen stellen werkt niet voor mij.

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Probeer het verhaal van jouw klant te kennen.

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Beloftes, beloftes.

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Massop Coaching en Massop Journey

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Je werkt beter onder druk.

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Je bent gedesorganiseerd geboren.

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Creatieve mensen zijn net kinderen.

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Je bent defensief in de manier waarop je iets doet.

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Jij kunt snel met ideeën komen.

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Er is maar één manier om jezelf te organiseren.

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Je bent anti-sociaal.

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Je bent afwezig en vergeetachtig.

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‘Wanneer je klein begint, maak je ook kleinere fouten.’

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‘Er zijn andere voordelen aan ‘klein beginnen’.’

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‘Het volgende is een kort seminar over de do’s en don’ts voor het starten met een onderneming.’

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