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A COACHING MINDSET
TAKING YOUR SKILLS UP A NOTCH
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A MINDSET • Habitual pattern
• Provides a frame
• Defines our choices
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PRACTICES OF A COACHING MINDSET
• Accept Judger – Practice Learner
• Be Aware of Your Own Thinking
• Ask Powerful Questions
• Practice Generous and Deep Listening
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Defensive
Inflexible
Angry
Conflict
Blame
Pessimism
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Curiosity
Learning
Win-win
Energy
Inspiration
Success
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“The Learner Self lives its commitment to observing, learning, correcting and
creating.”
Marilee Adams
Open Ended
What, Where
How, When
Less is More
Silence
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GENEROUS & DEEP LISTENING
"Imagine someone listening, not only to your words, but also to what's behind them - who
even listens to the spaces between the words. Someone in tune with the nuances of your voice, your emotions, your energy - who is
intent on receiving everything you communicate. Someone who listens to the
very best in your, even when you can't hear it yourself..."
Whitworth et al, 1998
LISTENS FOR: • What you say • What you don't say • Meaning behind the story • Resistance • Fear • Where you might be out of balance • Who you are becoming • What's next
Mind Chatter
Talking
Judgment
Important
Main Event
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Attending Skills
Reflecting Content
Reflecting Feeling
Clarifying
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PRACTICES OF A COACHING MINDSET
• Accept Judger – Practice Learner
• Be Aware of Your Own Thinking
• Ask Powerful Questions
• Generous and Deep Listening
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